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not really a love life...just a twisted relationship
ok so me and my best guy friend are friends with benefits. we had a big fight about 2 weeks ago and we just started talking/screwing around again. he only talks to me online, through texts or when we're alone. im kind of confused why he does this, he used to talk to me all the time no matter where we were. are all friends with benefits relationships like this or just mine? dont tell me to stop being friends with benefits with him. we both tried doing that but we have this strange connection where we cant keep our hands off each other. how do i get him to talk to me in public
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im not trying to stop you from being friends with him but thats not how you should be treated if he cant talk to you when your around other people just only when yall are alone doesnt that seem like hes using you im not trying to hurt your feelings in anyway but ive seen this happen all to many times
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From personal experience, this sometimes does happen with friends with benefits. There's two possibilities. One: He's shy and feels awkward being around you when you're not doing stuff. Two: He doesn't want anything but benefits with you and doesn't really value your friendship. I understand that it's hard to stop a friends-with-benefits situation...trust me I've been there...but sometimes it's better for your emotional health. Hope I helped! (CH)
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Nope not all are like this and it almost seems like he is ashamed maybe, to have contact with you around other people or that ifhe did it would lessen his chances of atttracting other girls. I'm not really sure because it could be anything but you may want to actually ask him what is going on.
Also, eventually you will need to put a stop to it or at least be able to control yourselves. What's going to happen if you find someone or if he finds someone - will you both just stop being around each other completely in the fear youll jump on each other? Or carry on anyway? There's other things too but it's pretty hard to actually explain here in writing but I thik the best thing to do is ask him what's going on because if he can't even talk to you in public then I don't really see much of a foundation here for a friendship at all.
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