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And : if someone ask you this?
I ask her that question, why did you seem okay when i told you how i felt about you?" her answer "I’m fine with it not that I feel the same way because, I don’t know what gender I like. (Yet), male, female, I’m not looking 4 a relationship at the moment so I not looking at them like that."
I told her I was glad that she told me the truth and we went on chatting.
I’m not ready for a same sex relationship and I can’t find out who I am yet. We are in the same shoes together.
but do you think I should wait for her?
Does she feel the same way or is she a very close friend?
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If you want to wait for her that means you have some idea about you willing to be in a same sex relationship...To me, it's like you've made up your mind and you're just gonna sit there and wait till she makes up her mind. Be careful though, it might be her way to push you back and keep you 'waiting' forever when she goes out with god knows who. This could be her way of saying 'no'...
In my opinion, don't wait for her...This is a race against time, make the most of it. Go out, see new people. If you get hurt, so what, everybody hurts. I think she's just a close friend, a very close friend, who doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying 'no' straight in your face, that's why she's using this 'method' of saying that she's still confused and not sure. You're lucky to have a friend like her because she cares about how you'll feel if you find out the truth.
Don't worry, it'll get clear soon. I think she'll stop with this 'confused' reaction and tell you the truth. That's when your friendship might be at risk and it's all in your hands, depending on your reaction. Think of how she didn't hurt your feelings, gave you clues here and there...
Best of luck
Kay
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