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feeling down
I dont know how to put this. But i guess i never feel good enough, or pretty enough. I dont have like any confidence in myself. I just feel like a retard. And for some wierd reason , i find the more i talk to guys the more my self esteem lowers. I just feel like not good enough or pretty. What do i do?
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Don't worry about what people think about you at all. I know its easy to say than do but its really not worth it - if theydon't like you or think your ugly or whatever then to hell with them. People like that are not worth bothering with or worth wasting your time on. :] I've never known anyone to be ugly or anything of that sort. To me there's girls who I like and girls who I don't feel attracted to. There's no such thing as ugly.
Allow me to demonstrate... if you asked every person in the world what their ideal world would be like they will ALL have a different version. Because of this free will and the freedom for people to be able to choose everyone can never have the same perfect world (as dark as it sounds it's why there can never in essence be a perfect world). One persons perfect world could very well be another persons hell. In the same way one persons attractive person is anothers not so attractive person. These guys who put you down and make you feel bad - to hell with them. You don't need to talk or know people like that. I don't care what anyone says I think everyone is pretty (you included).
I'd be willing to bet your an awesome person but it's just a bit of bad luck that you've only had jerks to talk to up until now. Just be patient, there are some decent guys out there who are not like that. In the meantime be happy with the friends you have and above all be happy and enjoy life. Don't worry yourself about what people or guys think about you. They really ain't worth the stress. :]
If you need to chat more feel free to write.
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Just try not to worry...if guys make you feel worse, then don't talk to them. There is nothing wrong with just hanging out with your girlfriends, and that always makes me feel better, because when you are just with your girlfriends you can goof off, and not really worry about your appearence.
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