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Good Guy Friend (cont)
Hi I'm back. It's just that I find it hard to be myself, because I'm a rather rough girl. I talk rough. I say things like "shit" "dammnit" "damn shit" "I hate it like shit", etc. I'm not gentle at all.
And if I were to be myself, I'd be rough and it'll turn him off, I guess. So that makes up a large part of the reason why I can't be myself infront of him. So it's really tough...And I'm someone who pretty much talk like that all the time. So I feel very surpressed and ..not good.
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If you are friends now though, he has heard the way you talk and must not have a problem with it. So talk the way hes used to hearing you talk. Otherwise
he is going to be thinking "uh oh, what did I do wrong? Shes acting different all of a sudden." Then he will try and watch what he says and you both quit talking. You're both not comfortable anymore.
If hes not heard you talk that way before then he may as well get used to it if hes going to hang around with you! Just don't try and be someone you are not. It won't work out if you do. Sooner or later you will get tired of stifling yourself and then hes gonna wonder what happened. :)
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