no longer friends; but we still have mutual friends
Question Posted Friday May 4 2007, 10:40 pm
15/f. okay. this girl and I are no longer friends. like forever. It's over between us. But the problem is, that we both have mutual friends (and I mean like ALL of my friends are her friends too). and I have a best friend that is good friends with her as well. and when we are in the same area with the same group of people, it just feels very awkward talking to THEM but not to eachother. would trying to avoid her and them make me look like a loser in front of this girl? she's jealous of me, by the way. like MADLY jealous, and she tries to turn people against me. Thanks in advance :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? orphans answered Saturday May 5 2007, 2:56 am: This is tough one. But what was the reason why you two aren't friends? Cus, if anything i would maybe try to become friends again. This is very hard because your friends are her friends too. If you choose not to try to be her friend again, avoiding wouldnt make you look like a loser. Its just you two dont get along. Better then fighting everytime you see eachother. If she is the reason why you two are not friends. Just maybe try to see if you can be on speaking terms. You dont ever have to be best friends. It would alot easier on you even if you have to have a fake conversion with her every once in a while. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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