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fingering myself
17/f
okay...so i have a boyfriend and im sexually active with him. its one of the most amazing feelings ever. esp. bc the love is there.
and i love it when he fingers me. it really turns me on
but for some reason i cannot finger myself...ive tried...it doesnt do anything...it doesnt even feel good..ive tried everything possible to pleasure myself and it does nothing.
is this normal??
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Yes, completely. You could be doing everything he does & just as good, but I think the suspense of not knowing how he is going to do it makes it a lot more pleasurable. It just feels good when someone else does it (etc: if someone were to massage your feet, it'd feel great! but if you did it yourself, it just wouldn't be as great.) Make sense? Basically, it's probably a good idea to leave it up to him to do those things. :)
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There is nothing wrong with you dont worry. Your guy obviously knows what he is doing and that really works for you. Maybe pay attention to what kind of things he does..how much he goes fast or if he slows up a little..and try to copy what he does, i dont know if you have tried little vibrator toys ..if not try those, but if you just cant then dont worry about it..your guy has you covered! hehe
-melissa
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