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everyone is wrong
Everyone is saying that i cant like daniel radcliffe because i never met him! ive read everything about him that i could find and they keep saying that i need to find someone else who dosent ride horses naked...its making me really mad. im about to cry right now. everyone at school is all like " how do you know that your really in love with him if you have never met him?" everyone is making me mad. please dont say that this is just a teenage crush because it isnt. and please dont say that i cant because ive never meet him, im sure you love someone that youve never met. and if i sound mean in this letter, its not your fault, im just really mad right now. please give me some help!
Shelby
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Maybe you love him, maybe you don't
Maybe you don't get enough love at home or don't have a dominant male figure in your life.
Maybe it's just an obsession. Maybe in a few months you'll get over him.
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hi shelby, i'm elle. (:
you don't sound mean darling, you sound unhappy :[ and i want to make sure i don't sound mean to you, because i honestly just want to help. you seem stressed and it's hard for me to see anyone in pain.
so here goes my honest opinion/advice for you:
yeah, i totally agree with you that no one can say that you don't love him. "love" in general is really just a matter of opinion, and no one has any right to say that someone doesn't "love" someone else. however, i can also see why someone would think that you cannot love someone without really knowing them. image is abig part of all celebrity's jobs. to be successful they have to give their audiences an impression of themselves that may or may not be accurate. i can completely see how you could fall in love with his projected image though, he really does seem pretty amazing. i guess i just can understand both sides of the matter, and i'm sure you can too. i believe you that you love what you know and see of him, but i think it would ultimately be better for you if you'd look for a boy that you could actually be with. if nothing else, it would ease tensions between you and your annoyed family and peers, and it would probably take your mind off of daniel as well.
it may sound stupid and hard, but i promise it'll help if you give it a try.
hope this is helpful for you somehow, dear.
<3elle
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Honestly, you can't truly love someone you haven't met. I know what it's like to really like a cleberity,I did when I was younger, and look up stuff about them constantly and feel like you know them- but you don't, because you don't know how they REALLY are. I don't think those kids are right for making fun of you, just don't talk about it as much to those people. I know it may not be what you want to hear, but it's the honest truth.
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