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my friend and her mom
ok my friend, lets call her E, her mom is such a control freak!
like her mom controls her life and yesterday E's mom got mad at her so guess what her mom did? she read her diary! E's mom got so mad after she read it because E wrote some mean things about her, well how else are gonna let your feelings out?? her mom doesn't understand that! now E's mom tells E to not write that in her diary and only write good thing. can you believe?? E's mom is telling E what to write in her diary! that drives me crazy how much her mom is a control freak! another ex: E has a 93 (which is an A) in a certain class and guess what? her mom wants her to bring it up! heck E is already in omega classes (which is a higher type of class, for smarter people) i just cannot believe her mom. and i know that E doesn't feel to good about it either. some other reasons: her mom grounded her for a month just because E got second place in a speeling bee! and another time, her mom grounded her for 3 months just for folding her clothes wrong. and this morning her mom told her not to put on jewelry in the morning before school because it wastes time when E gets up early enough in the morning todo what ever she wants.
- please tell me and E how to cope with her insane control freak mother! please! &thank you
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Unfortunately her mom is not likely to change. She is definately a control freak and I feel for this girl. Keep giving your friend support, because she gets none at home. Usually kids of parents that are this over-controlling will do anything to please their parents and either keep trying all their lives or find a way to rebel. Sometimes they rebel by choosing to be with an even more controlling lover. Pretty scary, but very likely. Support your friend and warn her of hooking up with guys that are control freaks as well...she is unlikely to spot the difference. As far as you and she, let her make up her own mind on how to deal with it, because the last thing she needs is one more person telling her what to do with her life. Just support her choices and encourage her to be herself.
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wow. I think she should stand her ground when her mom tells her to do something she doesn't wanna do or doesn't have to. And stand up for whats right! A girl should have the choice to plan out her own life!
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Well, you should talk to E and have her talk to her mom about all of this. Try to figure out of something is going wrong in her moms life that is making her act like this because i just cant see anyone acting like that just because they want to.
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