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my mom and me in a fight.. HELP
okay, so i do track, and my first meet was yesterday.
So i was there,and my mom came with my 2 little sisters.
Heres me and my moms convo
me: why did you bring them?
my mom:they can come if they want too
(sister butts in and says, she doesnt want us to be home alone)
me: okay cool. why arnt you over there?
my mom: i came to watch you jump
me: im not jumping im watching people.
me: go sit over there with your parent friends
my mom: what?
me: idk go sit with like parents
then my mom left the meet angery
and i called her im like whered you go
and shes like you dont have to be a jerk to me
blahblah
and she hung up
and like when i needed a ride home, i called her and she came and got me at my school when the bus dropped me off, and im like whyd you leave and shes like bcuz you were being mean or something
and i was like your over reacting
then me and her started screaming at eachother
and we arnt talking to eachother?
any idea to get us talking again
and how i can be somewhat nicer to her ?
please help
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don't take this the wrong way but your mom is being really immature. she's totally handling it the wrong way in my opinion. i think she was just offended and maybe it was "the wrong time of month" if you know what i mean and got upset over little things because of it. i mean, we all have our moments! so i think you should take the first step and apologize because i think it sounds like she was hurt. but nothing either of you should lose sleep over, if you know what i mean. maybe she had a bad day and couldn't find an outlet to channel her anger ( I don't mean to be rude) so she just snapped at you. to aplogize you should probably say this,
"Hi, mom. Look... about earlier, i didn't know i was offending you. i thought you were going to sit with the other parents and i didnt mean for you to get upset. i'm sorry." and maybe you can ask to do a favor or cook dinner to make it up to her or something? but i really think she should apologize too because you really didn't do that much. but the way you said for her to go sit with her parent friends was disrespectful because she only wanted to see you. but i wasnt there so i cant tell you everything about your tone- lol. anyways, sometimes it's not what you say; but how you say it.
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Hey,
Take the first step and apologize...i think she thought that you're embarrassed by her presence around you and your pals when she only went there to cheer for you or watch you.
Let her know you're the happiest person because she is your mother. Make sure she knows you appreciate her presence around you every single second.
=)
Good luck.
Kay.
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