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i have a situation that deals with religion that is pesterin
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so me and my best friend are pretty darn good friends
we live 4 houses down from each other so we're together most of the time
the thing that's been bugging me soooo much lately is:
she's religious.
i'm not
it may not seem like anything to worry about since we're best friend
but honestly, i feel like that is creating a wall between us. everytime we someone manage to bring anything up about religion or we're around someone who brings it up, it's always just awkward between us
i feel like it's my fault sometimes because there's no reason why i couldn't be religious
but then again, it's a choice i made to be atheist a long time ago and i've really spoken up about it in the past year or so
i don't think this should be a problem since we're such good friends but the weird thing is is that we've never talked about it. it's been pestering me SO much lately but i don't know what to say or how to say anything without making her feel all awkward and not wanting to talk to me about it
we're not really the kinds of people that can just sit there and talk to each other about such deep deep issues considering we're so different
what can i do?
any help is appreciated :D!
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I totally understand where your coming from i myself am going through the same issue my friend is real I LOVE JESUS all the time and preaches to me everytime I dont go to church and i go almost every sunday but anyways she joined this new group of girls that are like that and now she wont return my fone calls total ignores me unless i get right up in her face. But a few days ago i just calmy said "Heather we need to talk i feel as if tho your religion and my views are getting in the way of our friendship" and now we cant stay off the phone just simply confront her! Live on!
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i think you should casually bring it up to her. say something like " i feel a bit akward like we are growing apart because of your religion and your my best friend. maybe she will have some ideas for that
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