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guyfriend likes me
it's really obvious that my guyfriend has a crush on me, but i dont like him - i like his friend.
he said that he will tell me who he likes "later" when we talk on an instant messenger.
well i dont know whether to go on or not later because i dont want him to say he likes me because i dont like him.
please, any suggestions? & i know he likes me and not anyone else.
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Don't be a coward and put off the inevitable. Go on messenger and talk to him.
If he says he likes you, be gracious and act flattered but tell him honestly that you don't feel the same way and you're sorry but consider him a good friend nonetheless.
Just be honest and gracious, nice but plain English. Head this off at the pass.
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If your friend is going to tell you who he likes later on, then sign on whether you want to or not. He's there to listen to you, right? Be there to listen to him; whether it's what you want to hear or not. He's going to tell you eventually, so why not let him do it now & get it over with?
If you don't like him, don't be scared to tell him. His feelings will come into mind, yes, but don't let that revolve around everything. If you don't feel the same way about your friend as he does you, then you need to tell him & be completely honest. Don't be rude, just say that you appreciate the fact he likes you, and it's really sweet, but you don't see him in that way & you don't wanna ruin the friendship or lead him on. Not only are you being honest, but you're not crushing him either. His feelings might be hurt, but at least you'll know he'll get over it eventually.
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if you really dont want to go on, then dont. however, he may tell you eventually. if he likes you and asks you out, in a non akward way say, i'd rather we just be really good friends. however, if he just says he likes you but doesnt ask you out, say something like, that's nice, but dont say you dont like him
hope i helped :)
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