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Does he like me?
Hi im 13/f and i thought you would be a good person to ask a question to:)
Well at first i really liked my crush and thought he liked me too. he would talk to me all the time, flirt, stare at me, ect. and this all started in Nov. then about last month my friend said that she told him so i got all scared and didnt want to talk to him because o he doesnt like me and i made a fool out of myself. well anyways all of a sudden he started talk to me. he would always try to since i stopped talking to him. he tried to sit with me(this all happened in one day), he was flirting, and then he was messing with me at lunch and at the end of the day al the stuff we do. So things went back to normal and then i decided that things went better if i didnt talk to him first all the time and playing hard to get and i still do but its kinda a reaction (ill get to that soon). so then on he would always talk to me first and we would stare everyso often and flirt ect. then about last week i found out he asked out his ex again and she said yes. my friend and i were walking up the stairs and all the girls came up to talk to himand were like, "O she said yes!!" and he was really quiet about it. then they all left and once i heard everything i was completely filled with rage! he started to quicken his steps so he could talk to me(he does that alot.) he was like, "Hi Brianna (from Behind)." i didnt bother to turn around and respond. so he kept going. "Brianna? dont you wanna talk to me?" i said no. he asked what did he do ect and i just didnt want to talk to him. he hurried to get his stuff and left his friends and was chasing after me to talk to me. he was asking,"What did i do, i didnt even mock you today (this thing he does to me. flirty thing only to me suprisingly when i say something or do something and it just makes me laugh). i just said dont talk to me, dont bug me ect. after that things havent been the same. i cant get myself to talk to him. or its just not the same. he chased me the next day and asked me what was up the other day and i said i was just tired. then i said sorry and we started flirting but its jsut wasnt the same you know. i watch him and his so called "Girlfriend" and they never even talk. they dont do anything. then last Thursday i kinda experimented and went in the same direction he was and walked infront of him so he could see me and all of a sudden i heard his footsteps and he was like flying down the steps and i turned around and he was cutting through people and then the next minute he was right there and we were talking. then the next day he did the exact same thing except that time he just came up to me and just smiled at me and i asked what was the smile for and he started walking backwards to his class smiling at me. so does he like me?? i dont think his friends or anybody convinced him to ask her out. they never talk at all and its all so confusing. he also told me once that he liked seeing me sngry. what does this mean. hope you can help me since you are older with much more experience. thanks
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Wow, this guy really baffles me. I wonder what he is trying to do. He obviously likes you. He obviously has no fun with his current/ex girlfriend. Hmm. Maybe he's trying to make you jealous? I really have no idea! Great question! In any case, I have some of an idea on what you should do about all of this. Ask him what's up. A good place to start would be to ask him why he likes his current/ex girlfriend and why he decided to date her again all of a sudden. It shouldn't be too weird of you to ask because you seem like you're pretty good friends with him. Whether he explains it to you or not, at some point he'll probably ask why you want to know. That's a great time to say something to the effect of "well I thought that we had a kind of connection there for awhile" instead of the normal "oh I was just curious". Then you can talk briefly about some of the feelings you have for him. Let him know how much fun you have with him and how much you like spending time with him and being around him. Just be totally honest. You'll be laying yourself out on the line a little bit, but if he's really as clueless as he's acting or even if he is playing some weird game with you, at least you will know that he knows exactly what you feel and will be able to do what he will with that knowledge. All you can do is put the idea in his head. It's up to him what he does with the information, but it'll definitely give you a good chance of being with him in the near future. Thinking that someone likes you is much different from knowing that they do. Right now, he thinks you like him. If he knows that you like him he will like you all the more. When you know for sure that someone likes you, you become very interested in them yourself. It's good to feel loved. If his current/ex girlfriend is just a boring blob and he has no connection with her, revealing your feelings like this could get you really far with him. Good luck with this guy, he's a really hard one to figure out! <3
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