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i don't know how to explain exaclty ?
dear ammo,
thanks a lot for replying to me. i have posted few questions already and i added the one u send me as well.it was too long so i seprate it.actually im quite new to this site i never used it in my life but i dont have any thing to do and there is no one who can guide me so i just search in google.well what happened is me and my bf love eachother a lot.but sometimes we used to have some little fights but will be ok by tomm or day after but this time i was already 2 weeks we didn't talk so last sunday when i asked mid of night he told me that we are broke up already im too shocked.i dont want to loose him in any cost.when we had a fight he hit me but that was not too much and because of me he did so.i feel guilty because he already told me please don't act like this leave me alone for now but i was so angry i was bugging him that was my mistake but i really love him and i cant imagine of breaking up with him as he told me already.but i know everyone will say its stupidness to stuck but i just want one chance to prove but he dont talk to me at all now if i keep on going to talk then he say go away, leave me alone n stuff ...i don't know what should i do ...as you told me write a letter i did wrote mails so many times to him but it is not working.we are in same room in his house with his family.please suggest me but don't get tired of my mail....but i dont wanna loose him what should i do ..
thank u so much for your help
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Hello.
I'll try help as much as I can. Firstly, there's never a good reason for hitting your girlfriend so I think doing that he was out of line.
I think the best you can really do is either write him a letter (since he's not getting your mails becuase he's not at work) and just leave it on his bed for him with his name on it. Alternatively, it seems that he just needs some time to himself to sort his head out and such so it might even be a good idea to just leave him to it. I know you're afraid of him breaking up with you and stuff but at the moment it seems the more you try and get answers from him or talk to thim the more you are just pushing him away. I'm sure he knows you do love him and need him but maybe just give him some time to get his thoughts together. It will hopefully make him see a little more clearly and he will come to you when he's ready to talk about it all.
If he has decided already that he doesn't want to be with you then by ignoring you he is being selfish. He should make his intentions clear. Do you even have anywhere else to go to? Like any other family you can move in with for a while? If you do I think it might be a good idea even if it's only temporarily - until he decides what it is that he wants. Doesn't any of his family talk to you? I assume they all know what's going on but haven't they spoken to him about it all or spoken to you about it and tried to be supportive towards you?
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