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MY "BEST FRIEND NICK" <3
16,f
sorry i know its gonna be long but i would appreciate it SO much if you can help me
ive liked this guy, for about a year almost on and off. the only thing is..he has a girlfriend of about 11 months or something!? he always gives me mixed signals though, like im not sure if hes flirting or just being a goof. like tonight we went to the indians basball game with my cousins and the seating went: nick, my cousin, me and my other cousin. and i wanted to sit by nick =) keep in mind he DOESNT know i like him, actually nobody does! anyways my cousins were fighting and nicks like ohh my goddd...kristen lets go sit somewhere else like joking and then hes like no seriously you can come sit on the other side of me. i didnt want to make it too obvious but then after a bit i was like uhhh JEEZE! im moving. so i moved by him! <3 and one of my cousins moved to the other side of me. anyways..they were showing people on the screen and then they had the "kissing" one and my cousin is like hahaha what if they put it on you two. and i just start laughing and hes like yeahh what would we do? and my cousins like put your arm around her! so he did =)until it went away....and then a song would come on and he would like slap my leg and i would hit him back and then my cousin wanted to take pictures on her phone and shes like okay you two love birds (jokingly) get together! so i like put my arm around him and stuff. and it was soo cute! he would always touch me and like spread his legs on top of me and stuff. and i hate when people touch my hand for some reason but and he figured that out tonight so he kept like trying to hold my hand! and when we were walking out he was being a nerd and like dancing and i was like oh wow i dont know you! and he stopped and like came back and tried to grab my hand/arm and i got really close and was like im just kidding!! i was like AHHHH!! my cousin even told him that so many people think we like each other and are going out because of how we act around each other. and hes like haha! noo we are just sex buddies and hes like thats what we do when we drop you guys off ;) and im like yeah! we're just "fuck buddies" i dont know! everything is just mixed signals. if it werent for his girlfriend i would think he might like me but i know he LOVES his girlfriend to death which hurts. he has them on his phone background of them kissing! its just so hard. i love hanging out with him he makes me feel so comfortable and myself so i dont want to stop hanging out with him. and like when we were driving he put his arm like behind me. and my cousins like hahah you nerd! ah what do you think about all this? is it just all fun and games or is it flirting!? keep in mind that he doesnt do this to my cousin!???
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Confront him about his mixed signals. You'll feel like a complete dork/freak/despie doing it, but it'll get it out into the open.
Make no mention of your affections to him, just (perhaps even jokingly) suggest that he likes you and can't make up his mind if he likes you or his girlfriend more (Which is possible).
But....you'd be suprised how many girls are in your position. There are just a lot of guys who act like that, flirting and all, with girls they may or may not like.
But, things may be a little weird if you confront him seriously, he seems like a sort of light-hearted person, and something deep like that may throw him off.
So, if you don't want to get hurt, then get over him.
If you're insane (Like me XD) and don't care whether or not you get hurt, then throw your doubt to the wind honey, and tell him how you feel and how much he's hurting you.
But that's a fast track to heatbreak. He might not like you in that way.
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