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i need to go out.
15 f
my parents are the over protecting parents we arent as close as we used to be. we never really had connection so it would be weird to start talking to them telling them how i feel, and i dont think they would take it seriously since we never had these kinds of talks before.
so i recently just started highschool and i meet alot of cool new people and new friends so since im getting older i want to go out with my new and old friends. i also have a boyfriend which my parents dontknow about because they dont let me have any. so my mom says that i want to go out alot and she tells me that she wont let me go out if i dont do this or that. like last night it was 11 and i wasnt sleeping yet and she got mad and told me i wasnt going out anymore.she does this everytime and it gets me mad. how do i stop this? i got really mad. so now i cant go out. everytime i want to go out she never lets me anymore i dont know why she always says no! and i only go out once a week which is on saturdays i think i atleast deserve 1 day out of the week to hang out. im not a bad girl i dont do drugs or cut class or anything. im just a normal dadys girl who does eveything shes told. everytime my boyfriend wants to hang out i cant because my parents dont let me go out lately everytime i ask they say no. and my boyfriend is really tired. he says that he misses me and wants to see me, we text everyday and we talk but he says thats not enough and that he wants to see me. we dont go to the ssame school so what do i do? should i sneek out or lie so they can let me out? please dont tell me to talk to them becase that would be really awkward. thanks!
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You need to sit down with your parents and tell them how you are feelings and how this is bothering you. Don't start an argument and yell it at them because they won't take it seriously and think it's in heat of the moment. Tell them you're a good person and you won't do anything bad but you're growing up and need some space and you're starting to go out a lot more. Give them examples on how good you will be compared to other kids. And when you do go out earn their complete trust by coming home at the right time and stuff.
Hope I helped :-)
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You need to get interested in some other activity that you know your parents would approve. For example : have you ever thought of volunteering 1 hour after school. It could be working at an animal shelter or in a hospital or even at school. Give that a try and see how your parents react ?
To volunteer, all you need to ask is a teacher or your guidance counselor. They will make a contact for you or at least let you know what to do.
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