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I hate love triangels!
okay this is long Im sorry. Im 20 yrs ol'/sex:F.
well i've been having a crush on my best friend Sal for five years. But i told Guy (our friend) i like him in high school because he listen to me and understood how i felt about Sal.
and today
Guy ask Sal out on the phone, Guy told me she'll think about it. But Sal told me about it and she was annoyed when he ask her out.
I played it cool and hold my jealousy in.
I told Sal how i felt about her and she was surpise.
Now shes been flirting, leaning and teasing me.
Guy told me that she likes me and i'm happy about it.
Now me and Guy are flirting and joking about sex every time.
Guy and I are having a tug a war with Sal, cause we both like her.
What should i do?
i dont want to but i have wet dreams about him.
and i want Sal but i dont know how to ask her if she does like me or does she like guy?
I dont know what to do or say and i know i'm going to talk to them. But do you have any advice on what to do? Have you ever been thou this?
I hate luv triangels!
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I've known a person who had a similar love triagle dilema. There is no right way to pull through this, every situation is diffrent. If you really want Sal but still want to remain Guys friend, and as you mentioned Sal was'nt so into Guy asking her out, then go for it. Ask Sal out, since you already expressed her feeling it wont be to awkward. The worst that could happen is she says no, or not at the moment. Imagine how she may feel, torn between you and Guy. If she says no, well, you tried and you're all still friends. and hey :) you can ask Guy out in a bit if you feel up to it. If she says yes, then you've got it made, and it seems that Guy won't get overly angry about it, you are after all all friends.
just my take on the situation, take what you can god luck :)
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