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he played me for the 33435234 time!!!!


Question Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 12:37 pm

f/14 i just broke up with my boyfriend last night because yesterday jeremy that i have been liking way before me and raheem hooked up told me that he wanted to go out with me i said no because you are stupid!!!! because the time when i asked him out he told me no because he thought i was crazy but the real reason was that i already had a boyfriend and i practice being faithful so i didnt want so tell him yes while i was still going out with raheem so yesterday
i went ova there and i had on a granny hat and jeremy and tevin and them made fun of it so i brung it home and then i walked back over there jeremy came outside and i was trying to tell him what had happened and he didnt want to listen he was like you calld me stupid yesterday and now you want to talk to me now and i was like i had to do somthing last night i need to tell you and he was like noo i was stupid yesterday but today u want to talk to me today i was like but i really had to do somthing and he was like mann talk to me tomorrow or monday its too late now and i was like today is late but tomorrow and monday is earlier and he was like noo it would be better tommorrow or monday because i am with my peeps so.......... HE SHUT THE DOOR IN MY FACE!!!!!!!!!!!! but i had break up with raheem first!!!!! do u think when i tell him he will understand?? or you think i shouldnt even worry about telling him??????? .


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ammo answered Sunday April 15 2007, 2:52 pm:
Hi.

I got a little confused along the way but am I right in saying that the guy you like and want to ask out is the one who slammed the door in your face? I hope he's not like that all the time. :-/

Anyway, I think you should just chill and give him the chance to chill out too. Chances are he is just angry that he got called stupid after asking you out - it would probably knock a guy down a notch or two so he's just lashing out at you. Let him calm down and then talk to him and tell him your side of the story and see what happens from there.

Personally I think he should count himself lucky that you do like him as it's very hard nowadays to find someone who can be faithful as you demonstrated. Good luck with him. :]

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Brandi_S answered Sunday April 15 2007, 2:46 pm:
**Answer Edit** Either you were only looking to hear what you WANTED, or the truth hurts. ;D


Boy, o boy.
Why didn't you just be truthful and tell him you had a boyfriend, and would have to break up with him first?

See where dishonestly gets you? He would have been far more understanding if you had just told him the truth. He will likely not be so understanding when he finds out you lied to him.

Healthy relationships have two important keys- honesty and trust. You have already started it off on the wrong foot. You were dishonest, and how is he going to know he can trust you?

Not to sound like an a**hole, but I would have shut the door in your face, too, for telling me no because you thought I was crazy.

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