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Confused!
Im a nice guy and dont usually become jealous.
But recently I spent the night obver my friend adams house and they have the coolest entertainment center, a xbox 360, a Wii and a 50" plasma. Adam also has nice clothes and other cool things. he has a good relationship with his parents and is "good looking" to almost everyone.
Everytime i hangout with himi feel poor because my family cant buy me all these things.
I dont know if i can deal with this anymore.. i feel bad
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I know exactly how you feel. alot of people feel this way. my best friend is very beautiful and is very rich and such. But are you generally a happy person? it seems like you are. Just because this friend has all this cool stuff he might not be happy inside. money isnt everything. It seems as though you lack confidence. you even said im a nice guy up there. so if your a nice guy use that as your weapon! Stop worrying about this kid ''adam'' because it doesnt matter about him. it matters about you! If you want to start getting ''cool stuff'' try getting a job or something and save money and you can start getting things you like! and not only does that make you hardworking it also shows that you worked hard for your earnings which makes you pretty cool in my back ;)
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I'm sorry you feel like that. I'm sure everyone goes through this. There will always be that person who has bigger and better. I know I've gone through it with my friends.
But that shouldn't really matter. So what if he has all those materialistic things? That doesn't reflect who he is as a person and who he is as a friend. As for the other things, like a good relationship with his parents. You can have that too! If you want it.
Don't look at it as you being jealous and don't become jealous. Thats negative. Try looking at it in a positive way. Maybe looking up to him. The entertainment center, x box 360 & Wii don't matter. If if he seems like an all around nice guy, then theres no reason you shouldn't look up to him.
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