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Hi im alyssa. if you want advice ill get it to you like it is. Everyone wants to be me. i might not be nice but i know what im talking about. im the most popular girl in school and the hottest girl in my school so i know what im doing. you WANT advice? ask it or leave. kbye

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hi i am 13 years old and i need advice because i need a date to the school dance i am trying to impress this one really cute boy but he doesnt notice me and im acting myself i mean i really like this boy ever since the first day o school all hes interested in is popular girls and im popular and pretty because alot of people tell me but i really want to go with him but hes just interested in girls with big boobs and stuff like that help me please.

mkk hun take some cotton balls and stuff your bra a little bit. make sure you look smoking hot. wear like a tank top and a short skirt and go up too him and say "Do you want to go to the dance with me?" guys LOVE asertive girls. SHOW HIM YOU GOT CONFIDENCE. and i betcha he'll say yes...and if he doesnt. MOVE ON CUZ TRUST ME HE ALREADY HAS

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I'm 14/f and i used to like a guy in my english class (16/m) since the first day of school. the crush ended around the beginning of march, but now him and his friends think i like him, and now he likes me and won't stop trying to talk to me and saying hi. it's so annoying and embarassing

how can i get him to stop?

UMM HELLOOO, stop being the awwhhh nice girl or he wonttttt leave you alone. tell him YOU DONT LIKE HIM hell pretty much get the picture and leave you alone!!! and if that doesntt work tlel him hes a effin stalker and he needs to leave you the hell aloneeeeeeeeee. trust me that one will keep him away. KBYEE

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okay so i went out with thys guy last summer. we went out for about 3 monthes. we were pretty close and everything but the small things that bugged me about him made me break up with him. then when school started up about 3rd qouater he asked me back out and i was hesitent at first but then i said yes. i started liking him more. but now about 1 month 2 weeks im really doubtin things. anyways my point is that he really likes me. but i hate tht i can say i love you to him but i question myself that if i really mean it. so i dont know what to do..i dont wanna break his heart again.. ughh help?

okay welll obvvviii (obviously, duh) if you dont like him , then dont KEEP DATING HIM. like wtfff thats sooo messed up to himmm. your being selfish now and yu need to end this thing. he doesnt deserve to be played mk? so break up with him move on and date someone you actually like!!! kBYE

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Dear Everyone,

how can you tell a guy likes you. i know i should just ask him but i dont really want to unless im sure he actually does.

signs that he likes me?

1. he IMs me first[before i used to IM first]
2. he has nicknames for me [which no one else has]
3. his default pic on his myspace is of me and him together
4. he plays around with me by holding my hand, sitting on my lap, messing with my hair, ect.
5. out of all his friends that are girls, he pays the most attention to me
6. he constantly wants to hang out together and when i have to go he begs me to stay[lol he will hold on to me and not let me go!]
7. he will make certain remarks; did i ever tell you how much i love you?
8. he shares his secrets with me that he has told no one else
9. he hugs me from behind
10. we always get mistaked for being a couple
[the other day a guy came up to me and said someone told him that my friend and i were "together". and when i asked him who told him that he wouldnt tell me. he said he forgot.]

but see the problem with all of this is that i used to like him then i told him and it was a disater because the feelings werent returned. and then i stopped liking him and now i do again. so im not sure about this one.

sincerly,
Emily Williams

well uhh it seems like he LIKES YOU!!! but i dont like the part at the end where your like i used to like him then i told him and it wa sa disaster because the feelings werent returned. IVE NEVER Had a guy NOT like me back but im guessing it sxcks like shxt!!!! THE RULE I TELL ALL MY GIRLS TO GO BY IS. If he didnt like you before and now he does HE MISSED HIS CHANCE!! move on hun hes not worth your time . kbyeeeeeeeeeee

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i had a dream last night that my best friend betrayed me and we weren't friends anymore, what does this mean?

It means thatt ur having trusting issues!! duhhh. the mind works as weird as the goth kids who believe in satan. WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT SOMETHING over and over it ends up in your dream in a different way. So talk to her about ittt, and if the bxtch betrays her, find a way to ruin her life! kbye

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so theres this guy. and hes liked me since 4th grade, but i never liked him. But, now, he doesnt like me anymore and I like him. We're friends though. So I have friends that kind of "outshine" me. so whenever we all see each other in the hallway, they are funnier than me, and i think he likes them better. How do I get him to notice me? How do I get him to like me? Please answer, thanks.

Okay first off. He liked you. you HAD your chance. you blew it. are you prettier than your friends? cuz if you are start being seductive guys like bad girls. so pull the skirt up and take off that sweater and start making your damn move. INVITE HIM OVER. like watch a movie or something and make a MOVE. hook up with him. MKAYY??? kbye

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hay so theres this guy in the year below me and i have been out with him twice already, 1st time was 2 years ago and again last year for about a month.
he is my best friends brother and the other day i slept over her house and he and his friend were there hangin with us for a while. he kept touching me and flirting with me, sitting really close and stuff too. it didnt occur to me until they lelf (coz he was slepin at his friends house) and my friend said "omg i think my brother likes you you,eww!"
it didnt bother me then but now i cant stop thinking about it and im confused of what to do like would it be weird if i went out with him again.. for the third time, i dont know what my best friend would think cos it was a little weird with her when i went out with him again before. i also dont no if he likes me or not wat should i do??? talk to my friend about it first or will it be weird??? help!!!
thanx xoxo sal

It sounds like hes interested. If you like him, go for it. if you worried about your friend being mad talk to her about it. even though its akward explain to her how you really like him. if she doesnt understand and gets mad at you i dont really think thats a friend...

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Hi I'm 16 year old female and I recently have been experiancing pain in my side near my ribs it mostly hurts really bad when I sneeze. It also hurts whenever I lay on my side and basically just when I make sudden movements. I am playing tennis but haven't had practice all this week so It cant be from that. So if you have any ideas as to what the pain is from or anything please let me know because i'm debating about going to the doctor or not.Thankss

Hey . I have that too and i went to the doctor for that. Whenever you have a weird pain or anything like that , that lasts for more than three days you should definetly get it checked. It could be a pulled muscle or something, or even a gallbladder stone. unfortunally for me it was a gallbladder stone. but dont panic! they are harmless but can cause pain. have you told your parents? You should have them schedule an appointment for you. hope i helped

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Im a nice guy and dont usually become jealous.

But recently I spent the night obver my friend adams house and they have the coolest entertainment center, a xbox 360, a Wii and a 50" plasma. Adam also has nice clothes and other cool things. he has a good relationship with his parents and is "good looking" to almost everyone.

Everytime i hangout with himi feel poor because my family cant buy me all these things.

I dont know if i can deal with this anymore.. i feel bad

I know exactly how you feel. alot of people feel this way. my best friend is very beautiful and is very rich and such. But are you generally a happy person? it seems like you are. Just because this friend has all this cool stuff he might not be happy inside. money isnt everything. It seems as though you lack confidence. you even said im a nice guy up there. so if your a nice guy use that as your weapon! Stop worrying about this kid ''adam'' because it doesnt matter about him. it matters about you! If you want to start getting ''cool stuff'' try getting a job or something and save money and you can start getting things you like! and not only does that make you hardworking it also shows that you worked hard for your earnings which makes you pretty cool in my back ;)

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so im a 17 year old guy. i have a low voise but for some reason when i talk it sounds fast and kinda like a gay mans...its really weird..what should i do?

Hey. Well first off your not gay im guessing, so why does it matter? Stop worrying about what others think. there are far more worse things that could happen to you out there. but if your really that self concious about it try standing infront of a mirror and practicing how you talk and the way you pronounce words...good luck. IF YOU ADVICE SEARCH MY PAGE! : )

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