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Question Posted Friday April 13 2007, 4:12 pm

do guys expect to get a handjob or blowjob from their girlfriends? im 14/f, and i know it seems young or whatever, but there are soo many girls giving them to their boyfriends right now, so is it normal?

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Razhie answered Friday April 13 2007, 6:05 pm:
30 years ago smoking was normal, and it kills people.

Being normal is not a good way to determine what people should be doing, and certainly no way to determine what little boys should expect from their 'relationships'.

But no, in my opinion I don't believe that that is the 'norm'. It's just the 'cool', so people talk about it, and understandably, young teens have a plethora of questions about it. Finding out what is 'normal' sexual behavior is a problem that has plagued researchers for over a hundred years. It's almost impossible to do, because no one is honest about it. Teenagers lie when it comes to sex just as much as adults. Teens can certainly talk more sex then ever before, but it’s impossible to say what is normal.

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uluvtrey108 answered Friday April 13 2007, 5:57 pm:
well i think that you should give them neither because it is just gross.

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holahayley56 answered Friday April 13 2007, 5:45 pm:
its only normal if your a slut. its normal for them, but thats about it. i wouldn't do it, just because everyone else is doing it. would you jump off a bridge if everyone else did it too?

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lbwhite89 answered Friday April 13 2007, 5:44 pm:
No, it's not normal. You're way too young to even understand about the ANATOMY of a guy, let alone making him orgasm.

Those girls you described are what we like to call "sluts".

And a lot of guys don't just settle for a hj or a bj...they'll try to pressure you into sex...sometimes it can be by force.

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