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How can i tell her?
Ok so im like best friends with tis girl and i have feelings for her. how can i tell her without having the chance of ruining our friendship?
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Once you take the first step, there's no turning back. There really isn't a way to do it that wouldn't put your friendship in jeopardy. That said, it's not a friendship you're after anymore, it's a relationship. Don't worry about the friendship. Technically, you've already taken the chance of ruining the friendship by having those feelings in the first place. Your friendship with her, honestly, won't ever be the same. So right now, put that behind you and focus on convincing her to be your girlfriend. It shouldn't be too hard. You're friends with her so she must like you in a lot of ways already. Relationships are so much better than friendships and will do so much more for you in the future even if they don't work out. Whether or not you can be friends with her again after the relationship (or your rejection) depends on the type of people you are. Some people can be friends again after a breakup, some can't. So, ultimately, my advice is, forget about the friendship. It's doomed anyway. If you like her, chances are she likes you back too and is just as afraid as you are to share her feelings about it. Pursuing a relationship is worth all the risk. Good luck. :)
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Flirt with her as much as possible. Hang out with her, and become close friends. See if she likes you, and if she does, go for it & ask her out.
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