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meeting up with him?
There's this guy, Jack. He's friends with a lot of my camp friends, and I've started talking to him online. He's really great, but I haven't met him in person yet. I want to, but we live like, half an hour away. And the camp friends that he knows aren't greattt friends of mine, and I don't really see them a lot. However, I think if I could get invited to one of their places I'd meet him, cause he's constantly with them.
So any ideas on how to get myself invited?
and also, i asked a question similar to this a while back(different situation, but the begginning was similar) and i got a million responses on how to be careful cause he could really be a 40 year old man.
PLEASE none of those this time.
I've talked to him on the phone once, and I'm the only one of my friends who hasn't met him.
So none of those.
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I'm not really sure how you would go about getting yourself invited unless you brought it up in conversation with him and then hope to get invited by him. It may not even happen as he may think it's a bit too sudden to just invite you but eventually he may do - it may just be a matter of you waiting and being patient.
I would like to make one point though. Although the internet can be filled with a lot of older perverts who target young individuals this is a very narrow way to look at things. It doesn't take a 40 year old man to lie or be something he isn't. Anyone is capable of lying be it a 13 year old or a 40 year old and both are equally capable of causing harm so I will say to be careful when you do go and to ensure that someone knows where you are and you agree on timeframe to check in with them just to say you're okay.
I work for an online security agency that target online predators so what I say above is not from what I read or see in the news but more from what I have witnessed and seen happen.
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Talking on the phone or not, there's always a chance it's someone WAY older than you. So whether you've talked to them vocally or not, it's still always a thing to keep in mind. Safety is always the most important issue.
Anyways, ask him to hang out one on one. Even though you live half hour away from each other, that's not all that far. My ex boyfriend lived half hour by car & it was only 15 miles which wasn't even far from me. And we made things work, and it was a great relationship. So just because someone lives about half hour away, it doesn't mean things can't work out. Just ask him to hang out with you at the mall or the movies or something. Be careful, good luck & half fun.
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When you find out about one of their parties casually say, "Those sound like a lot of fun... I wish I could go." Or something they will probably invite you.
Good luck
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