I really really like this guy, but I'm not sure about how he is feeling at the moment.
We had been aquaintences before we met at Prom, but began to pay attention to eachother when we both were in the same picture party group, and found out that neither of us had dates. So we spent the evening together getting to know eachother and found that we're quite similar! He called me the day after telling me that he liked me and wanted to see me again. That week he called me everynight on the phone and we talked for hours.
About a week after prom, we went on our first date. (this date was also my very first date too! so it was special) We had a great time, and I let him kiss me. (It was also my first kiss!)
We see eachother sometimes at school and he always seems happy to see me.
But heres the thing, it's been two weeks after our date, I see him less and less at school now, and and he hasn't called me once! He told my friend that he really really likes me but might possibly be too busy to make things official.
Of course I really want us to be Boyfriend/girlfriend, but I'm also fine with going a little bit slower to accomodate his schedule.
So, what should I do? Its killing me how sparsely I see him, and I feel like some of the magic is being lost with less and less contact. He makes me incredibly happy when we're together, and I really like him and don't want to lose him. This is my first 'relationship' so I have no idea what to do!
Thanks so much!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? christina answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 9:54 pm: If his friend told you what he said about his schedule, then you need to talk to this boy yourself. Tell him you like him & wouldn't mind taking things slow for him. Although he might think that you won't wanna be with him, you would have to reassure him you do, but you don't wanna rush him into anything if he's not ready for it. If he likes you the way he says he does, then he'll understand & things will work out fine.
JeniMarie17 answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 8:51 pm: try to start talking to him more on the computer if you two do or try and make time for you to take a new way to class and see him and im sure he likes you its just that he is scared. dont pressure him into it. [ JeniMarie17's advice column | Ask JeniMarie17 A Question ]
exohhmelissa answered Wednesday April 11 2007, 8:50 pm: It sounds like you both really like each other. I think the b/f g/f thing would def. work out.
To talk to him say your own words: Of course I really want us to be Boyfriend/girlfriend, but I'm also fine with going a little bit slower to accomodate his schedule.
He will appreciate your concern for him now and wil want you to care about him in a relationship.
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