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my bf is in job corp
my bf went to job corp. before that he was in treatment for his problems with alcohol. he said he is doing this for us. he dropped out of school the year we started dating. his 10 grade year and my 8th grade year. im still in school and want to go to college. when i told him that, i thought he would stay in school but he quit. now im a junior and going to graduate early. he said after 2 years of job corp he can go to college, adn i would love that. im considering going to Norway for college though. i have family there adn it would be a great experience. but how do i leave the guy i've loved for 4 years here. we have our hard times, but through it all we still are great together. my friends don't like him for his past drug use, but they understand my feelings and deal, what i'm saying is he is the one i love, but if he loves me should i make him wait. help, do i go to college and come back for him.
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If you love someone, you need to let them go. If they come back, it's forever.
Go to college and finish your education. If you two were meant to be together, he will be waiting for you when you come back.
Right now, he is learning from his mistakes. He wouldn't want you to stay and regret not going to college. I'm sure he know how painful regret is after the things he's been through and would never want something like that for you.
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i agree with the girl below me.
go to college. if he loves you he will either wait or be willing to move to where you are.
everyone has their hard times but everything gets worked out in time.
you dont have to leave him just bc of college and remember that college isnt for everyone. some people arent cut out for college and wouldnt benefit from it. but dont let his plans stop you from doing what you want to do.
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I would go to college. Your education is very important.
He is the one you love, but if you are truly the one he loves, then he will be patient for you.
Your friends' opinion of him is irrelevant in this decision, unless you are thinking to choose to stay with him over higher education.
Go to college. Come back for him after. I'm sure that you will see him on breaks, holidays, and summer.
If he is willing to wait for you, then I would say what better way to prove his devotion?
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