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We hooked up... now what?
I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I don't have feelings (more then a friend) for him anymore and it wasn't fair to him at all. A big reason i finally did it was because there is a guy i like. I've known him for years and i used to like him when i first met him but back then i was way to young and my mom wouldnt let me see him. well now, for last few months, i've been hanging out with a new group of friends, him included. When we're all together he will look at me and smile and we talk and when my best friend goes to hang out with them and i'm not there he always asks where i am and tells her to call me and have me come over. well one night he gave me a ride home and on the way he asked if i had to go directly home and if i wanted to come back to his place and hang out with him.. so i did. i ended up staying the night at his house and we ended up having sex. we talked alot and we both decided we didnt want a relashonship (at the time i still had a bf, i know im horrible) and he's "talking" to this girl who i HATE, i hated her before i knew he knew her... but he told me he did like me but now lately he's acting totally different to me, not mean or anything, but he doesnt call as much as he did, and we barely speak when we're all hanging out. We didn't tell anyone what we did because we didn't want everyone we know involved in our sex lives but.. was i used? is it possible he likes me?
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To me it does seem like you were used but I could be wrong. Maybe there is a different reason why he hasn't called you? Why don't you call him and see what's up. Better yet, talk to him ab out this and ask why he's been acting so different lately. If he continutes to ignore you & not talk to you, don't put up with him. If he really liked you, he wouldn't be doing this to you and he could be telling that girl the same things that he tells you.
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It definitely sounds like you were used to me. I think you should just leave him alone, he's not worth it.
This girl that he likes...once he gets done and over the sex with her, he'll move on to the next. Some guys are just like that.
Don't try to get involved with him. He definitely used to for sex.
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