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Family Trouble-part 2


Question Posted Tuesday April 10 2007, 12:00 am

OK, now im pissed off. Now that my mom's trying to get her money back, and it takes 7 hours to get to Rockford,Illinois, and 7 hours to come back. Well, hes saying that hes going to call the police on her and child services, and get my brother and me taken away from her. I swear if my mom doesnt kill him, i am. GRRRRRRRR, what should do about it, Im on my last nerve, i swear. If anyone bothers me at school tommarow, im probally going to punch someone in the face. WILL SOME ONE PLZ HELP ME?!!?!?!?!?!

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Sabine answered Tuesday April 10 2007, 1:37 am:
Grrrrr is right. You are not the adult. You should not have to worry about this. The money and breakup is your mother's problem and I hope that she has the resources necessary to get justice. If there's no reason for your brother and you to be taken away from your mother, then her ex cannot make it happen, no matter what he says. That's a bluff. Your mother should call him on it.

Your mother is likely too freaked out right now to be of any comfort to you. There's nothing you can do about the money or the idea that your mother might be investigated by family services.

Here's what I suggest you do:

1) Get a good night's sleep if you can. You may not be able to.

2) If you still feel this tense in the morning, do not go to class immediately if this is allowed. Show up early to school if you can and ask to see the counselor right away because the stress is about to boil over in you. I don't know how old you are, but you're obviously a minor. Children should not have to deal with these problems. I'm not blaming it on your mother. I'm only saying that adults should keep their quarrels between themselves and not do crappy things like leave a woman and two kids without any money because of disagreements. What a jerk. This is very stressful and you have every right to be pissed off.

I hope it gets better.

Sabine

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