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i've had enough of this.
tonight i went to a friend's house for a little while, and my mom couldn't find the house to come pick me up even though i kept telling her how to get there. she kept yelling at me and when she finally got there, she started screaming at me more. when i got in the car she started flipping out telling me i couldn't do this anymore, and i was like "yup." and she turned around and hit me for basically agreeing with her. i didn't even do anything wrong but of course, everything i do is forbidden & dumb.
it's like my brother can do no wrong but when i do something they flip out. when i get home, the argument escalated & i basically told her that if she ever put her hands on me again i'd call the cops on her. i'm 16 years old, and she treats me like i'm 5. me and my mom used to get along but lately she's just been a huge bitch and i'm starting to hate her. my bags are packed and i'm ready to leave..what should i do?
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Dont leave, you may end up in a seriously worse situation, i remember my mother and i always use to argue just say your sorry even though its hard when she may be being dump, perhaps she has a lot on her mind and just can remember where your friend lives or forgot what you told her, stuff like this happens all the time but just dont leave, with no money no support etc and only 16
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Please don't run away. Because running away never solves the problem. It can even create a lot of new problems that are much worse.
I don't know what your mother is going through right now. Maybe she's really stressed out. I can't say whether or not her behavior is abusive. I can't because I only have a couple of paragraphs to read.
If you believe that you're suffering abuse... Seek outside help. Talk to a teacher, go see your schools guidance counselor... If there is a family member that you can talk to, talk to them. You need the help of someone you know you can trust.
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OK, first off you need to calm down. Ok now this same situation has happened to me. but im not sure to the extent of the "her hitting you" Like was it hard or just a lil smack cuz she was pissed.. because if it was a small smack.. she probably just did it out of anger.. (UNLESS she is always hitting you).. Parents have a lot of things to worry about in the run of a day. and sometimes we just dont notice how much exactly she has to do! and you saying your going to call the police probably makes her more angry.. and you wanting to run away, because she loves you and you are her little girl. What you need to do is go talk this over with your mother and tell her how u feel. If she is really hurting you and hitting you and you are scared go to the police. but remember if it isnt this serious! she is your mother and remember that she just loves you
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