My boyfriend & I have been having great sex for awhile. The last time, we were trying new positions and he couldn't get hard, and then when he was, I wasn't wet. It kept going back & forth, with each position. I don't know what to do now and I'm scared we won't get back to having our usual great sex. What should I or we do? (18/F)
First of all, try buying some lube. You can get it either from an adult store or from a drugstore. It really helps with the whole wetness issue.
As for the new positions, and trouble maintaining erections, try the position three times before deciding it doesn't work. My bf and I had a lot of trouble with doggy style, until the fourth time or so. Three times lets you get used to the new feelings, figure out how to make it work for you, and start enjoying it instead of concentrating entirely on how it's being done. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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