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sexual frustation
22/F
recently for the past few months I have been very very aroused. I am still a virgin and waiting for marriage. But is not like I haven’t done ANYTHING. just messing around basically. My friends are always saying I am going to put my future husband in a coffin on our honeymoon because of sexual frustration. Why am I suddenly on a arousal stage where it is constant? It is even worse when I am dancing with my guy friend. Masturbation only helps a little. Does this mean I have a high sex drive minus the sex? This has really been bugging me for a while and can use some insight. Thanks a bunch.
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It would appear that you have a bigger sex drive than some people. Usually it's hormones or puberty but you are long past that stage. If masturbation isn't working for you try giving him lap dances, strip-tease etc. It could be a turn on for both of you.
You may also want to try role-playing games or visit an adult novelty store to see what kind of sexual games they have that you can play together that doesnt involve intercourse.
I'm not sure how you feel on giving and recieving oral sex but that could help you greatly relieve sexual frustration. Your arousal is always constant because you haven't been finding ways to relieve yourself.
You might also want to try fingering provided you educate him about what you want and desire as that wll relieve tons of tension. Also try grinding against him as well for the stimulation for both of you while clothed or in under graments.
I hope those ideas help you. Walking into an adult novelty store and checking out role-playig sexual games may help. In your case vibrators may help you as well. Take a look around and see what kind of aids there are to help you with high sex drive from books to online articles as well.
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