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bff or bf
~13/f~ im the kind of gothic rough girl and hes the kind of preppy nice guy.Im not sure how I like my friend bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then it started going to bffs. because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much. people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? hes just really to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and deppressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him(the guy she broke up with). Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf? As in him) and my other bff (she just broke up). he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be…us kissing. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think and write about.
i really need help soon. we tell each other a lot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked each other. my life is very messed up i hate it hes all i really had.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How do you think he likes me? What should we do? How do you kiss? How could i tell my mom?
this happened on friday and we still havent talked were bffs. what should i do?
this all happened last week and was written last week and still nothing happened
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Wow. Same exact situation I was in when I was 13.
It seems to me that you really care for this guy. But take into account your relationship now; that may change if yall started dating.
I think that he does like you, and obviously you like him. He's giving off all the signals. He may just be to shy to ask you out. And by him starting to wear black, I think maybe he's trying to be like you, the same. Like hes trying to change for you. So it's not nessescarily[Sp?] a bad thing.
Just talk to him. Tell him that you do like him, and ask him if he likes you back. In my situation, my best friend was too shy to ask me out. So we just kept flirting and being silly. And I never told him anything.
I regret it now. If you want something you gotta go for it.
And as for kissing;
There is no correct way to kiss, because everyone kisses differently. Just remember to have non-chapped lips, and minty breath ;D.
And if youre asking about making out, well then you just gotta go with the flow. Just make sure you dont leave your arms at your sides; that just makes it awkward. :P
About telling your mom, well, it would depend on how "cool" your mom is. I know that some moms do not want their daughters dating at 13. So if she wouldn't mind you going out with this guy, just be like "Hey mom, you remember so and so? Well yeah, I really like him and he asked me out/I asked him out, and we're going out." Or if you want to tell her you like him well it would eb something like " I like so and so a lot." See? Quick and painless :P.
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Hope I helped
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