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yeah i feel bad
Okay I met this boy and he's straightedge and he said he doesn't date girls who drink,do drugs, or smoke. well when i first was with him I didn't do anything of the stuff and well I've fallen in love with him and I started doing drugs for about 4 months ago and i'm still doing them. i also drink sometimes. I want to be him so bad I'm afraid to lose him. I know he loves me and he still doesn't know that I've been doing drugs and I know he'd care but I don't want him to leave me. please don't tell me about how drugs are bad because really I don't need that.
If you were my boyfriend and i told you would you be mad or do you think he'd be really mad and just break up with me.
I've tried to stop a lot of times really I've tried so many times the hardest I could but really I can't stop at least not right now its really hard for me. i'm going to keep trying but even if I did stop I don't want to have that be a lie I want to actually let him know if its a good idea.
Please give me your full honest anwser it means a lot to me.
What should I do?
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I can see his point of view as an edger myself, but love isn't just what someone does. Love is being able to stick with someone. If you want to get through it he should stay by your side and help you through whether or not he agrees with what you're doing. You shouldn't have to worry about losing him because you shouldn't have to question whether or not he'll stay by your side.
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If you really love this guy, you will respect his beliefs & his thoughts. He wants to date a repsectable girl. Not a druggie who's also drinking & having promiscuous sex [not saying you are]. You knew he disliked those things from the start.
If you want to keep him around, stop drinking, and stop doing drugs. If I was him, I definitely would be mad. Because like I said, you knew how he felt, and you still did it anyways. And when you feel like doing drugs or drinking, try & think about how bad it'd hurt him if he ever found out.
But you need to tell him the truth because I think he deserves that much, don't you?
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