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he confuses me... in a good way
alright sorry this is so long, i'll try to make it quick
so there's this guy i've liked for a while. he's a juinor and im a freshman. to top that he's got a child. anyway, i've been talking to him via text mess. then we both started doing the musical together. we talked quite a bit then too. well musical is now over and we still talk, more like flirt. badly, like he'll say something about me, like call me hotty or something like that, so i'll do it back, and we go back and fourth. but sometimes we do have deep convo's. well once he told me he likes this girl. we'll call the girl Amara. well Amara sits next to me in math, and we talk all the time. seriously were good friends. But it really surprised me, when he said he liked her, i didn't care. seriously fine go ahead, like her i could care less. well Amara told me she likes him, they text also. Her parents won't let her date him. but the boy went to florida for spring break. and before he left he told me that they kissed three times on the lips after school. WHY WOULD YOU TELL ME THAT? anyway i was kinda hurt after that. i havn't texted him because he's still in Florida, but i have a feeling when he get's back ill get a text. what do i do? im upset, hurt, sad, but i don't want him to know that. what do i do? or do you have any good rejection habbits? you know like chocolate and a chick flick? lol please some advice would be nice. thanks
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Maybe he told you that he liked the girl and kissed her before he left, because he wants to make you jealous. Maybe he really actually likes you, and is using one of your good friends as bait. You said that you flirt and talk alot, so he just might actually like YOU! i hope that helped. Let me know how things go
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Hmm. I think you should tell him how you feel. Let him know that it makes you upset when he talks to you aboutg the girl. Tell him he needs to realize the signals he's giving someone. Because it seems to me like this guy is just dangling you on a fishhook. So, your not upset with that they like each other, but you dont like it that he flirts and stuff with you but doesnt like you, is what I understand from this I think. When he gets back from FLorida, just let him know either he likes you, or he doesnt, and if he doesnt then stop messing around with your feelings. Hope I helped! Happy Spring.
-Brina
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If you like him, then tell him. Even if your friend likes him, and he likes her, he still deserves to know how you feel.
When he told you he liked her, did you tell him you didn't care? If so, he got the wrong idea & he thought you didn't like him, so he thought he could tell you things like that. Clear it up for him & tell him how you feel.
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