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hi. im bee. im 16. and i'd love to help you!

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how do you put real hearts on aim not the

you press alt 3..but you can only press the three on the number pad right of your keyboard.
you cant make the real hearts if you have a laptop.
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okay, so lately, i haven't really gained any weight, but my stomach seems to be bothering me.
like when i sit.. it 'bunches up'. i used to do alot of curlups, but i've been taking a break.
i just really want to lose the weight on my stomach, and i know you can't really lose weight in a specific place, but does anyone know any ways to target that area other than curlups? i need more of a way to burn the fat off, along with building muscle, more than mainly building muscle, since you wont be able to see it under fat anyways. =P

Instead of doing curlups, what i do is dance. It's a fun way to strengthen the stomach muscles, without having to do a workout. Just put on some music and dance dance dance!!

hope this helps. Let me knoww!!

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13/f okay well we have established that. Well here's the deal, I got my phone stolen, and didn't realize it, but I told my parents, so now I want a new phone, but my mom doesn't think I'm responsible, and I don't have any money. Should I try to earn it, get it from my brother, or just wait until my birthday or christmas

you should try and earn the money to show you parents that you can be responsible. If you earn your own money, thats a sign of maturity, and your parents will think you are a more responsible person.
Good Luck!

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how do they pierce your belly button..like wat steps do they take.

ok first they mark you belly button and make sure its in the right place you want it.
Then they prepare the needle, and tell you to think about something else, and take a deep breath.
then they stick the needle through, and as long as you keep taking deep breaths, it doesnt hurt that bad. Then after they do that, they have to put the ball on, and thats probably what hurts the most, because its sensitive when you first get it done, so it still hurts a little.

It's a pretty quick process, when i got mine done i was in there for about a total of 10 minutes.

hope i helped!

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Well my mom did some thing REALLY REALLY stupid she said when ever my cusin gets things pierced I can get them at that age she hers, and my cusin
got her belly button pierced at 13 and I just turned 13 a little bit ago so do you think I'll look like a little s*** but I really really wanna get it pierced and most of my friends have it done so i think I wanna get it

well, i think you should wait a little longer to get your bellybutton peirced. I got mine done for my 16th birthday, and i was 13 when i really really wanted it. If you wait until your a little older, you can show it off without being called a S***. If your younger and get it done, it might just make it seem like your trying to be older than you really are. But if you really want to do it, you should go ahead. But remember it takes a lot of responsibilty to care for it, and you have to watch out for infections.
hope i could help. Hope it works out ok. =]

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whats that song that goes
"you see us in the club, we lookin real nice, something something to the beat to the beat."

thanks haha.

Its called "give it to me" by Timbaland...Great Song!!

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I don't know if i'm super shy or if it's a medical problem but I can NOT present in the front of the class. I can't even stand up there and read one paragragh! My legs and voice automatically starts shaking, my face gets redder and redder, and if I stay long enough tears just come out of my eyes.

Sometimes if the teacher is undestanding, she'll let me present it to her alone during recess but this is for a big project that is about half of our report cards. 30% is going to be in our oral marks so I HAVE to present. There's going to be about 3-10 pages to read.

I can't even barely stand up there to read one paragrapgh so how am I going to read ten pages? I was so nervous that one time I fainted! Taking deep breathes and calming myself down does not work. Please help me..my life is literally on the line and my reputation in the school too

ok you need to relax. When you are reading your paper just pretend you are all alone in your room practicing. Pretend there is no one around you. I think your worried about what people will think about you, and you shouldn't. Focus on your grade, and getting throught the presentaion. If you focus to much on the people watching you, you will get too nervous and not know what to do.

i know this one girl, she wouldnt present a powerpoint presentation, and she was soo nervous she ran out of the room. Finally she realized that she needed to pull it together. So she presented her project and everyone loved it, now she's not afraid to give presentations, and shes more outgoing.

hope i helped. please let me know how things work out. Good Luck!!

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okay so me and one of my really good guy friends just started going out. everything's going great.. except our phone conversations. we never really have anything to talk about. can someone give me things that we can talk about (not like: how's the weather. more personal.) thanks.

Ask about each others day, sometimes, that usually leads to something that you could talk about. If it doesnt, ask questions about each other, like what you like to do, and just about their life. That way, you will learn about you new boyfriend, and show him you care, and also you will have something to talk about.
hope i helped!
Good Luck!

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whats a good way to get the dirt out under your nails?

Soak your h nds in soapy water for about 10 minutes. After that you should be able to get the dirt out with a regular metal cleaner thats on the back of your nail clippers.
Good Luck! hope that helps.

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I want to pierce my own lip and belly button.
And I can't go and get it done professioally.
So, can you tell me what to do [in general]?
So it won't get infected?

To peirce your belly button you need a special needle. as for the infections, you should get bactine, it's a liquid antiseptic. Also you can buy seasalt, and mix a Tablespoon of that in a little cup of warm water. Pour that on you bellybutton. It helps to heal the inside of the peircing. The bactine helps for the outside around the peircing. As for your lip, i wouldnt use the bactine, but the seasalt would be great. Hope that helps you some!

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umm...ok hi.
i like this boy Dakota and he likes me. and wen wnt out for about 2 months but too much drama got started so we broke ^. but we REALLY want to go bak out but we r afraid that if we do drama will get started again but we still REALLY like each other....plezz help. we r just....so lost..

If you like him, and he likes you you should go out. You shouldn't let other peoples drama affect your relationship. If you both really like each other, you won't let anything stand in your way, and don't be scared. Things should work out as long as you pay no attention to the drama. Hope that helps!

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theres this boy iv'e been liking for a while he like dme for while but the n stoppe dhe now likes my best freind an dsh elikes him to but her other friend like s him so she wont go out with him so what do i do to make him like me?

You should talk to him, be friends. He'll notice little things about you and maybe he'll start to like you. Ask him if you can hangout out together sometime. Just be yourself and let him know how you really feel about him, but not too soon because you don't want to scare him away.Drop little hints here and there. Hope i helped!

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alright sorry this is so long, i'll try to make it quick
so there's this guy i've liked for a while. he's a juinor and im a freshman. to top that he's got a child. anyway, i've been talking to him via text mess. then we both started doing the musical together. we talked quite a bit then too. well musical is now over and we still talk, more like flirt. badly, like he'll say something about me, like call me hotty or something like that, so i'll do it back, and we go back and fourth. but sometimes we do have deep convo's. well once he told me he likes this girl. we'll call the girl Amara. well Amara sits next to me in math, and we talk all the time. seriously were good friends. But it really surprised me, when he said he liked her, i didn't care. seriously fine go ahead, like her i could care less. well Amara told me she likes him, they text also. Her parents won't let her date him. but the boy went to florida for spring break. and before he left he told me that they kissed three times on the lips after school. WHY WOULD YOU TELL ME THAT? anyway i was kinda hurt after that. i havn't texted him because he's still in Florida, but i have a feeling when he get's back ill get a text. what do i do? im upset, hurt, sad, but i don't want him to know that. what do i do? or do you have any good rejection habbits? you know like chocolate and a chick flick? lol please some advice would be nice. thanks

Hey
Maybe he told you that he liked the girl and kissed her before he left, because he wants to make you jealous. Maybe he really actually likes you, and is using one of your good friends as bait. You said that you flirt and talk alot, so he just might actually like YOU! i hope that helped. Let me know how things go

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