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i think i'm ugly
14/f.ok. well...i think i'm ugly.pretty much every girl at my school in my grade (8th)is skinny and pretty. i'm a nice person, i have quite a few friends, and i talk to guys.. but i just feel like i'm ugly. i'm not kidding when i say this... every girl in the 8th grade has/have a boyfriend. i've never had a boyfriend. i know, i know, i just need to wait for the right guy to come around, but what if that never happens for me?? i'm 14 and i weigh 175. i don't look that big, but i kinda do.. i just want a guy that likes me for who i am and what i look like, but what if that guy never comes around?? do i need to loose weight? people tell me i'm pretty, and they like my clothes or w/e. but i just feel like there won't be a guy for me. what do i do??? help me please!! thanks a bunch!!!<3
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LOOKS ARE SUBJECTIVE.BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER.There is a theory that people are coustom made and their faces are made according to what they would want themselves to look like.
About the loosing weight,you might or might not be over weight.I don't know how much a pound is(things are weighed in kilos here) and more importantly I don't know your height.If you think you need to loose weight the healthy way.Looke for some Thai and Japanese recipies and learn about their diets.They are both very thin.You could buy Naomi mouriyama's book "Japenese women don't get old or fat".You will automkatically crave the food your body needs.Modern American fast food is not what humans were meant to live on.Eat healthy.Make exercuse fun.Run up the stairs,play sports,go swimming,jog in the pool.HAVE FUN.NO one knows why or how boys choose girlfreinds.Scientists find that phenomenon very strange.Most of the time,guys choose a girl other guys like or are considered beautiful by the rest of the world because the are famous or a model even though being a model requires more talent rether than "beauty".However it does require to be thin.Ofcoures being fat was in fashion once,but being thin is healthier and humans and all other animals were meant to be thin.Modernisation is changing that.Settle for a guy who likes you for who you are and not because you are in demand and it makes them feel like they achieved something.Insecurity is usually because of something that happened in the past.Post traumatic stress disorder and other psychological diseases could cause insecurity
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Don't worry girl, that's nothing.
The guys that like girls for good personalities are the boys who are worth it, and the ones that don't are the ones with sexually transmitted diseases.
When you look back on this with your friends, you'll be laughing being proud your first relationship was a real one. They may seem real, but 8th grade relationships aren't really real, like people may do stuff but they only have a boyfriend or girlfriend because they think it's the grown up thing to do.
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we all have insecurities. i havent had a bf either. it seems like every other girl in 8th grade has. but most guys dont care about looks too much. trust me there will be someone for you. i know its hard to be patient. i am not too good at being patient myself. and you are not fat. however if you want to lose weight im sure you can go on a perfectly healthy diet. im sure if you are told that you are pretty then you are pretty. and besides guys do love girls for whats on the inside. and you seem like a great person. im sure that one day you will find a nice guy that will love you just the way you are. i keep telling myself the same thing. heartbreak is something im used to but someday we will find someone special. i hope i helped. =)if you need anything else feel free to message me.
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