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not quite friends anymore...
sorry so long...
me and nick used to be like best friends. i could tell him anything. (btw, im 16/f). me and kat were best friends too. shes a foreign exchange student who sat with us at lunch. shes hilarious. nick met kat one day after i would always tell him about her. well, i was falling for him because he would always tell me how beautiful i am and how much he loved me. what girl wouldnt fall for someone as sweet as him? but i told him the day after valentines day that i was falling for him. he had met katharina about a week before that. when i told him that i was falling for him, he was like "o. well, ur not over ur ex. maybe it will work later." ok. i understand that. but what i dont understand is eversince he met katharina, hes been acting like a dick to me. he ignores me, wont tell me that he loves me, and when i try to confront him about it, we end up arguing. ((i met him thru one of my bestest friends, chris.)) i often confide in chris. kat and i recently got in a fight and nick sided with her. even tho i did absolutely nothing wrong and kat had no reason to be mad at me. she took the whole fucking problem to my mom, who i dont get along with. and she knows this. so my relationship with kat and nick havent been the same for almost a month. and its getting on my nerves. hes taking her to prom. o. hes in "love" with her. but love takes time. he just fucking met her.
couple of ?'s
-why is he doing this to me?
-when kat leaves in 2 months to go back home... do you think hes gonna come back to me?
-im over trying to be friends with kat... but what do i do to get my relationship with nick back to where it was?
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i bet, kat was jealous of your guys's relationship,then she stepped up her game and compleatly entranced nick. who knows,she probably does this every time she moves. My advice,is start talking to chris as much as you can,and compleatly forget nick. he doesn't know what love really is, whatever. forget him. chris was always there,right? also,talk to her about the lunch thing. say that that was rude and shes not welcome there anymore.talk to your friends befor you do this,and explain why to your friends. just forget about nick and kat. they can go all "lovey dovey" on eachother. He might also be doing this because, he likes kat, or he wants to like her, OR he wants to forget about you, OR kat said she liked him,and he liked her for that. you know,so many posibilities, but it doesnt even matter. hes a bad friend. He will probably come back to you. Don't take him back. no,hes not worth it. You can't get your relationship back with nick the way it was. i know you dont want to hear that,but think of it this way, he ditched you,why would you want to? ask him,in the nicest way possible, like "do you not like me,because of kat,or something? i miss us being friends,and with two months left of school,its not worth fighting. I;m not saying we have to be close like befor is you dont want to,but i just want to be okay. Or do you not like me because i did something?" if he gives you a stupid,answer like "you did this and your so annyoing" or whatever,just hangup. this will leave him with nothing,you got your answer and thats all you wanted. well...i know this advice seemed mean,but look what he did to you! good luck
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He's probably doing that because of Kat, but I'm only taking a guess because that is what I would think, and it seems like it to me. She might've said some things or something. LIke not to hang out with you or something. And when Kat leaves there is a chance that he will come back to you. To get back to where yours and Nick's relationship is you should probably just have a long, nice talk about with him about everything. And just ask him questions like why he changed and stuff. And try not to get an attitude with him or anything.
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