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Member Since: March 28, 2007
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Last Update: March 28, 2007
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sorry so long...

me and nick used to be like best friends. i could tell him anything. (btw, im 16/f). me and kat were best friends too. shes a foreign exchange student who sat with us at lunch. shes hilarious. nick met kat one day after i would always tell him about her. well, i was falling for him because he would always tell me how beautiful i am and how much he loved me. what girl wouldnt fall for someone as sweet as him? but i told him the day after valentines day that i was falling for him. he had met katharina about a week before that. when i told him that i was falling for him, he was like "o. well, ur not over ur ex. maybe it will work later." ok. i understand that. but what i dont understand is eversince he met katharina, hes been acting like a dick to me. he ignores me, wont tell me that he loves me, and when i try to confront him about it, we end up arguing. ((i met him thru one of my bestest friends, chris.)) i often confide in chris. kat and i recently got in a fight and nick sided with her. even tho i did absolutely nothing wrong and kat had no reason to be mad at me. she took the whole fucking problem to my mom, who i dont get along with. and she knows this. so my relationship with kat and nick havent been the same for almost a month. and its getting on my nerves. hes taking her to prom. o. hes in "love" with her. but love takes time. he just fucking met her.

couple of ?'s
-why is he doing this to me?
-when kat leaves in 2 months to go back home... do you think hes gonna come back to me?
-im over trying to be friends with kat... but what do i do to get my relationship with nick back to where it was? (link)
He's probably doing that because of Kat, but I'm only taking a guess because that is what I would think, and it seems like it to me. She might've said some things or something. LIke not to hang out with you or something. And when Kat leaves there is a chance that he will come back to you. To get back to where yours and Nick's relationship is you should probably just have a long, nice talk about with him about everything. And just ask him questions like why he changed and stuff. And try not to get an attitude with him or anything.


hey this is kinda confusing, so yea my friend likes this guy, and i like him too, he's friends with both of us, I've liked him for a while but havent told my friend and she told me a couple weeks ago she did, and now i feel bad to tell her i do because shell think im stealing him.. what do i do? because shes my best friend and i really want her to know (link)
I think you should tell her. I was in the same situation as you last year. What I did was I went and told my friend that I also liked the guy she liked. At first she was alittle upset with me about it but than she got over it. And we both just decided that it's ok if we both liked him, but we both wouldn't go out with him if he asked because it would you know upset the other one and would break up our friendship.




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