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in love with him
i met this guy about 6 months ago.
i told myself that i would not fall for him but a little over two months ago we had sex. He took my virginity and i ended up falling in love with him. i told him how i feel and he was fine with it i told him i was sorry and he said don't be. Well two weeks ago we got into this argument and he told me to get over him and to stop talking to him.
i am miserable, depressed and i feel like i have no reason to smile or be happy anymore. Ive lost alot of respect for myself. none of my friends understand me or they say they don't but when i ask them what should do they say talk to him. yes maybe i do need to talk and tell him how i feel right now but he will not listen to me.
i miss this guy.
ive cried myself to sleep the last three nights.
please give me advice as to what will make me feel better.
thank you
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This guy is a jerk, hun.
You keep asking questions about him. Now you need to go back and read your own questions.
Is this the guy you really want to be with?
You gave him your virginity. He likes your friend. He says you're too clingy. He doesn't want you to talk anymore.
All he has wanted is sex from the start and that's just the type of guy he is. One day he's going to look back and realize how great you were and by then you will have moved on.
I feel bad for you, I really do. And I wish I could give you a shortcut or find some way to help you get over him quickly because you can't be with this guy. He's an asshole.
Your friends are wrong, talking to him when he doesn't want to talk to you just brings up a million other issues that are going to lead to nowhere. You need to close that chapter of your life. Give yourself a few more days to pull yourself together. Then take a deep breath and move on. You'll find someone new. It may take a few days or maybe even months but you can't wait and you can't pine. You just need to go out and have fun while you're still young.
Trust me, you're only feeling bad because you're making yourself feel bad. If you look into the mirror and tell yourself you don't need him with conviction, I promise you'll be out there in no time. Sure, you'll still be a little sore but seriously, that's what life is about.
You can do it :)
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hey, alright well you gave your virginity to this guy, so of course your going to have strong feelings for this guy and he isnt going to be easy to let go. thats why everyone recommends being against premartial sex. your suppose to seriously love your partner and have him equally love you. i hope that you learned your lesson about having sex with guys that you arent sure if they love you 100% and sincerely. anyways, as much as it hurts you have to let him go. if he had the ordasicity to have sex with you and pretend like you were the best thing that happened to him and then tell you to stop talking to him, than hes not worth it and you deserve better. i dont even know you and im saying that. i know right now he seems like the next best thing since sliced bread, but its only because you had sex with him. trust me, ive been there done that. in reality, hes scum. try to find other guys and date around. see what you like and find some good qualities. put yourself out there. have a friend introduce you to some guys. look cute and smell nice. fantasy by britney spears smells amazing.
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Clearly you actually have legitamate feelings toward him, but as much as you want, which if you truly can't sleep, you must, then you have to let him go. Since you gave your virginity to him you will always have a sort of connection to him, and what he said may have been in the heat of the argument, but you need to move on.
If he eventually does want you back, then that decision is up to you, but until he makes that move, just try to distance yourself a bit. Date someone, just keep a lookout for him.
You never know, he may just need a little time and space.
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