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other bffs guy girl sleepover
Im 13/f depressed gothic girl. One of my bffs is having her 13 bday soon. Shes always been the sporty girl that has all (guy) friends and 4 (girl) friends. Shes as gross as all the guys and acts like one as in acting out sex and porn and everything like that. and tries to get people who like eachother to makeout and ya. And her guy friends spend the night a lot as friends. Her bday is paintball then a sleepover guys and girls. My mom wont let me spend the night but I can go shoot people and they shoot me? Whats so bad about spending the night with a lot of guys and girls as friends? Ive never had a bf and me and my bff (a guy) like eachother and she started it! So what do you think all will happen if I could get my mom to let me? My bff is going to. we love eachother. What would happen between us and at the party? I really wana go. never know what shed do ~Please help soon~
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Ohh, Okay. Well, anyways, even if he isn't your boyfriend, he likes you and you like him. So, it's possible for something to, you know, happen. Well, you should still follow the same advice. Tell your mom that it is in fact a boy/girl party, but it is supervised, and that you're smarter than that and you wouldn't do anything stupid, especially becuase you have no one to do it with (!). With that, I think you shold have your mom call the parent or parents that are supervising, and have them talk to her a little bit, maybe that will ease her up. If she still says no, you can try showing her responsibility by taking on some extra chores and such around the house, maybe babysit a couple times. If she still says no after that, I think her answer is unfortunatly final, but you dont HAVE to sleep over, you can still at least GO to the party... Have fun!! ♥ Kathleen.
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Your mother does have a right to be concerned. She probably thinks you and your boyfriend will do something innapropiate there.
But you can try to convince her.
Will the parents be there? Make that a big point if they will. Even tell her to call the mom and talk about it if it makes her more comfortable. And let her know that you aren't ready for a sexual relationship with your boyfriend (atleast I hope your not, and if you are, I sure wouldnt tell my mom)and that even if you were, you wouldnt have sex in a house full of people. Try being really nice and doing extra chores too.
As for what could happen, Im sure your bf would want to get a little closer to you. I dont think anything more than kissing/cuddling, though.
Good luck
-Abby
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