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Question Posted Monday March 26 2007, 4:31 pm

I've been getting a lot of pressure from my mother to do really well in school. I really do try my hardest, and getting a bad grade makes me upset. But she seems to think that I'm not smart enough. Which, by the way, is not true at all. All of my classes are honors. However, I'm just not that good at math and science. I never have been. She yells at me everytime i get a bad grade, when all I need is support. I've tried to tell her that she's not helping me at all, but she just gets madder.
I just started to cut myself, and I'm trying to stop. But her pressure was part of the things that made me do it. It's that bad.
What can I do?


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cheifbritneeilu answered Monday March 26 2007, 6:05 pm:
well ;i know you know everything about cutting just listen this question isnt about me but in the middle of 5th grade i started cutting! i didnt stop untill the beggining of 7th grade its very - almost addicting.
but about your mom try asking a guidence couselor what you should do to talk to her. or an online conselor. like from kids crisis tell them everything they will be able to help you more than anyone on here. Just believe in everything you do ; if she is like dissing you ;ignor her just kind of tune her out.

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summerchick233 answered Monday March 26 2007, 5:40 pm:
ok, just dont cut your self! that is such a bad thing to do and if you continue to do it , you will get addicted to it and you wont stop. dont look from comfort in harming yourself. when something bad is happening to you, look for help from friends and family ( other then your mom obviously.. ) dont hurt your self!

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runawayxlove answered Monday March 26 2007, 5:00 pm:
hey, well cutting yourself is not good. you need to ocupy yourself with something so that you dont think about wanting to cut yourself. examples: friends, family, whatever. try not to be along and if you are try to keep all sharp objects away from you. as for the grades, in math and science stay after school and get extra help.

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