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Did i talk too Much at the wrong time?
I know this is long but please read it and answer honestly. So I rented a car to go somewhere and out of the goodness of her heart my friend agreed to take me to where i wanted to go she even had to miss a day of work and i said i would repay her for missing that day. So i put down the 100 dollar deposit needed to pay for the car and i also paid the 33 dollars to rent it as well as an extra day so her boyfriend could go to court.I owed her 24 dollars anyway for the day of work she missed so i said fine i'l pay the ectra 12 dollars because you are doing me a favor. So i did but then the guy didn't ever think me and although he treats me okay he is not really or was not disrespectful to me he didn't aknowledge me in the friendliest of ways his personality is eccentric he is a grown man 20 years old and has no money, no car he is broke and claims he doesn't work because his mama won't let him. Now i kind of went on a rant today about how he was in so much trtouble because he is doing something wrong in his life and how our frined should not have been the person to bail him out of jail for 300 dollars he should have called his family and that she shouldn't be so stressed out about all of this stuf because she is not his keeper. Was i wrong for saying whta i said and do i really talk to much to have friends not tomind you she is not perfect either she is very sarcastic in the "homney you know what sort of way."
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Hi,
first of all i think you are a very good friend and no matter what he should have aknowledged that. As a friend you are supposed to keep your friends out of harms way, your supposed to warn them and be honest with them. You told her EXACTLY what you believe about him and you shouldnt regret it at all. Some people prefer thinking before they talk so that they wont say anything mean but everything you WANT to say consist of the TRUTH. I just read what you said about him, i dont know him, but my honest opinion about him is that he is a lazy bum and he is taking advantage of your friend. You shouldnt regret a single thing you said because its not like you were lying about him, it was all the TRUTH, and she likes it or not, it was. Even if you might have overreacted,which i think you didnt, you did what was best to try and help your friend realize what situation she was in.
I hope i have helped!
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