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We were dating and loving it...and he just broke up with me?
Info: Ok I am 23 and he is 19. We are both artists and musicians. I am black and he is white. Question: I had a crush on this guy at work. Turns out he had a crush on me too. He asked me to date him exclusively. I said yes and we did. He told his family that we were going to be dating and they flipped out because 1/2 of them are racist. We talked about it and decided to work through it. We didn't have sex but we did make out and mess around some, shared some private goals and beliefs etc. Then he calls me after we spend the night together, the day he was supposed to talk to his family and work something out, and says that he isn't as interested as he thought he was. He says we should be friends, but then he stops calling and talking and everything. Then I hear that he was using me to get this chick at work jealous. But he doesn't seem like a malicious person like that, and I think he loves his family too much to take them through that for nothing.He also cried on my shoulder and wrote a song dude! About our relationship and situation. What do you think? What is going on?
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Hi,
I am a musician too, and I know what it's like to be around people who are racist, biased, stuck-up, and in-your-face because we're different. But you know what.....We're artists!!! We have free thinking minds and don't give a crap about all the bullshit that most people live their lives. I am 28 and white and I dated a black girl a few years back. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. But no one couldn't understand why me, a properly raised, white, Italian-catholic boy would do anything so stupid. I just wanted to look at them and tell them all to fuck-off!
You just do what YOU think is right for YOU hun, and if this 19 year old is too young to make up his own mind and not be influenced by his family, keep looking.....DON'T GIVE UP!! There is someone who will see you for who you truly are....a woman, a musician, and a beautiful person.
gianni
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personally? i think he is afraid of his family. i think they put to much pressure and he couldent handle it. and hes to much of a gentleman to own up to it, so he breaks your heart. if you call him, it will kill him that he cant be with you. you should try to move on? unless your to in love with him, and then if you are you should talk all of this out with him.
xo
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