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older! help please!!
ok so i am 15 going to be 16 and all of my other friends are going to be 15. i have been with my close friends since like 9 years old an all this time they've been thinking that i am the same age as them but i am not. im just so scared that they will find out in school and never speak to me again. but i dont know how to say it. i just dont feel like im older. they'll hate me. because i have kept that secret for so long. but right now i am in highschool and i really dont like my new school. i want to go where my other friends are but i am scared if i do go they will see that i am a year older because of those student i.d that say the year you were born in. also in my new school i am so scared because someone might find out. i started school late. i dont know what to do. i always have to be hiding my school i.d. but i really dont want to tell my new friends or my old friends. my new friends becase they are all bratty and they will make a big fuss over it. and my old friends becase i dont want to dissapoint them. also i have like a babyface and matured less then they did so i think thats why they think that i am the same age as them. i hate this. what should i do i am so worried i really dont want to tell them.!
p.s also..if you were my friend and i tell you that i got a misprint when i was younger and i was coming here to the u.s would you believe me? what else can i say so it can look realistic?.
thanks!
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I agree with Abby on this one. And just so you know, it can be a great advantage to have a friend who's a year older. She can drive first! Just be honest with them and I don't think it will be a big deal. If it is, then they were going to freak out about something, eventually, whether it was the date of your birth or that you mistakenly wore white after labor day or some little infraction. As long as you act like it's no big deal, they probably won't care either. I know I wouldn't have.
Sabine
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I think your over-reacting. In my class, there are kids who are a year older, and even kids who are a year younger than me. But their all my friends and I love them. If these people are your friends, they won't care and it won't make a difference. Your age has nothing to do with your personality. I dont think people would be mad/weirded out anyway, its a common thing to have friends who are older/younger than you.
Don't get tangled in this web of lies, tell the truth. The longer you wait the worse it will get.
-Abby
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