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One of my close friends
Well I have this really good friend of mine that i love so much. We have been good friends for a year now She goes to my church and i love her to death but there are times where we will go days even weeks without talking or seeing eachother... she says she is busy with her kids and stuff but sometimes i wonder. I mean i know she is busy but i still cant help but fill like im the reason she is never around.. i know its not true but thats just how i feel.. So i was hoping someone can help by telling me what i should do...
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As time has rolled on, I have realized what it is like to be busy with kids and caught up in life. Time starts to fly by, even faster when you lead a busy life.
I would say that in those times that you don't see her for extended periods, it is very highly likely that she has gotten caught up in her busy life, as she has said.
Don't take offence or take it to heart. If you are a good person, I highly doubt that you are the reason she isn't around.
I think that, since you are good friends and want to stay that way, you should be up front and honest with her about your feelings. Tell her how you feel you are the reason that you don't see each other as often as you would like. I'm sure if she has children, she is a mature adult, and she will listen to you and give you honest answers to your questions.
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hey, well if your wanting to save the friendship than i would talk to her. you wouldn`t want a whole year of good times to go to waste right? just tell her how you feel, instead of telling us. if she feels like you do [wanting to save your friendship], than im sure she will bend a little and try to make more time for you. if she still chooses to be "busy" or makes time for you one day and then just keep basically ignoring you, you have to ask her if she doesn`t want to be around you or what the deal is. if she ends the friendship, she wasn`t a loyal friend and definately wasn`t worth it. good luck :].
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