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stds
okay lets say i wanted to give my boyfriend a bj.
hes never done more than just kiss another girl besides me. so basically.. hes never been in contact with anything that could possibly give him an std. except he was in the hospital a bunch of times when he was like seven and he had like surgerys and stuff for his allergies to foods or something. i dont know. but he couldnt possibly get like aids or anything from that right? and so lets say he has no stds.. then if i give him a bj i cant get anything right? except for hpv because its in the sperm. but it cant be the kind that turns into cervical cancer right?.. because the virus isnt coming into contact with the cervix. is this correct? im kinda scared of getting stuff and dying so i dont wanna take any really big risks. thanks.
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if he had aids, you would know it so lets rule that out. As for HPV, you can get a free (I believe it's free) vaccine if you're between 9 and 24. Ask your doctor about it, if you get the vaccine you don't have to worry even if he does have hpv, because he wouldn't be able to give it to you.
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You can get herpes from receiving or giving oral sex. The only difference between herpes and true love is that herpes is forever. If he's kissed another girl he could have contracted herpes that way. Herpes is transmitable skin to skin. Some dr.'s say you can get HIV from giving oral. You can't get cervical cancer from giving a bj .
Before you give him a bj both of you exercise some responsiblity and go to the free clinic so he can get a test for herpes and if you've ever kissed anyone you should too.
Stay safe and never have sex without a condom.
Giving oral sex is risky. The risk can be lowered by him wearing a non lubricated condom during bj.
I answered your question honestlyn and you rate me a 3? I gave you accurate information. If your bf has kissed 1 person, male or female he could possibly have herpes. It only takes 1 person to give you herpes. If a woman has herpes on her lips, kisses a man on his lips then performs oral sex on him it is possible for the man to have herpes on his mouth and his genitals.
You said your bf had been hospitalized many times. If he's had a blood transfusion in the 80's he could have contracted HIV from contaminated blood.
If you don't want to take any risk don't engage in risky behavior.
Also i'd like to tell you that 70% of all people infected with herpes got it from their partner when their partner was having no symptoms of an outbreak. If you must perform oral sex on a man insist he go to the clinic and get a blood test.
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