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Win over her boyfriend
I have this friend, lets call her E. She is currently commited to this guy. he is older then she is and away in college. we both are just in high school. she has an amazing personality and i almost knew that i had real feelings for her once i met her. i know she has some feelings for me too. problem is she is still commited in her own mind, to the guy in college. it cause's her so much conflict, and rightfully so. i dont want her to have to deal with this, and i would be okay if she went to her old boyfriend. but i am notn really okay with this, because i really like her. and i kno that we would work out together. I can't control her emotions nor do i want to. I also dont want to be as selfish as i am. it's rude and not who i wish to be. But it hurts to realize that i may lose our relationship.
any advice on how to settle my troubles. either get over her (would rather not), or more preferably help her choose. and choose me. i really like her, and know we would work out. but how do i show her that too.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
don't talk to her about it.
spend time with her, talk, play, tease her...just have fun with her.
then instead of talking about your feelings, when you see the right moment, kiss her... though, in the current predicament, give a little time, a week or two, no pressure.
If it doesn't work out, best way to get over a girl is to get another one... or thats what i heard.
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im not going to tell you to get over her. i am going to advize you to put your feelings for her on hold. tell her that you understand shes in a relationship and you dont want to break her off from that. when the relationship fails, then you can go back to liking her
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