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he doesn't talk. much.
basically, i like this guy. & i THINK he might like me back. either way every week he finds a way to come up to me and say hi, then he just stands there. but that's it, he doesn't talk to me much besides that and whatever i decide to say. & it gets so awkward when that happens.
the question is, why does he say hi then just stand there?
& should i start the conversations, or let it just be awkward and stuff?
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I'm a guy and I'm really shy. This sounds like something I might do, although it probably wouldn't quite as drastic as it sounds like he is doing. Go ahead and try to become friends with him, he'll loosen up and come out of his shell and then everything will be good. He probably wouldn't be so shy or nervous if he didn't feel the same way about you. As for those awkward situations now, just go ahead and make some small talk about school, that should get the conversations going.
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hes just bashful. i think you should talk to him, if you dont itll be torture for both of you. ask him how he likes his classes, or if your in the same class talk about that (how the teachers a jerk, too much homework, etc). after a while i'm pretty sure the guy will grow more comfortable and will be the one starting the conversations. good luck!!! let me know how it works out ok?
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Yeah, like the person below me said he was shy, I just wanted to add on: he probably likes you if he tries to talk you. I wanted to add that if you keep starting the convo's and talk with him more, he'll become more comfortable around you. So then the awkward silences should go away. :)
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I think you should really just talk back to him
when the convo stops keep talking cause communication is the best thing
something that keeps everyone going is who you have the hots for cause im sure if he does like you he'll start talking....alot
haha
try that
but even if you do or dont like him i dont think itll hurt to have a new friend
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I`m guessing he's shy, and yes, I think you should start the conversations. Ask him how his life is going, ask him about school, ask him about pets, sports, hobbies, music, etc. Then eventually ask him if he wants to hangout anytime soon. Just don't rush into questions all at once, spread them out so you can take the time to get to know him.
Hope i helped. =]
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