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femenine friend
hi, well im a guy, 15. well i have this friend. we usually dont see eye to eye, but he can be okay when he wants to be. The problem is, me and my other friends, think he's a bit too femenine(sp?) he's into flowers and all that junk. his big beyonce like ass doesnt help matters either. should we be okay with it seeing how he's comfortable with himself, or man him up a bit?
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well lets see i think that you should leave him as it is it seemd like he's lil by lil opening up finding a way to let you know that he's gay .or mayb he might be a lil bit feminine but i guess they're are people like that just try talking to him dont make him fel uncomferatable it doesnt make you seem like a very good freind
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ah, i know what you're talking about. don't come right out and ask him if he's a fag, it will probably offend him. but when you're around him and your other friends, suggest masculine activities and stuff. maybe then he will see the light. try to help him out a bit, but don't ever tell him to his face that you think he's queer. and if it doesn't work, then i guess he's just like that and you won't be able to change him. try to still be friends with him, but if he gets too weird then it's okay to distance yourself a little bit. good luck though.
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Wow, well try talking to him. Maybe he's bi or gay, like the person below me said, you never know. If you ask him, make sure it's you and him alone so your other friends don't gang up on him about it. Then if he gets defensive and is like, "no. GOD" you know, if it cops an attitude with you, he most likely is, so you being his friend, make sure he's comfortable and tell him you promise you won't tell your other friends.
Then as if to let him be himself, ask him and see what he wants. My opinion, man him up a little but let him keep some of his feminine ways.
Hope i helped. =]
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wow. well, (not in a mean way) are you sure he's not.. bi or gay? maybe that's why he's acting that way.
maybe he's just joking around- i wouldn't take it too seriously. but if it's really bothering you, i'd grab some friends and be like, "hey guys wanna watch some football?" or something that guys dooo and if he's like "nah" i'd calmly be like "why not?" maybe he'll open up to you. don't be mean to him or treat him badly.
if he doesn't get the hint that he's being too feminine, i'd just start putting some space between you guys cause people might think (cause youre friends with him) that youre gay / bi too. - so i'd just keep some space.
if youre really his friend, you wouldn't take it too seriously though. like you said, he's comfortable with himself so why bother him?
i hope i helped - just give it some time. maybe he hasn't hit pubertyyy? when he starts getting interested in girls, that's when he'll get masculine.. ish.
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dear femenine friend,
i think your friend is just tryin to find the kind of personality that fits him and maybe you can ask him to play something manely like football then he might figure out he likes what he is doing and become less femenine
hope it helps ,
buddybabe
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