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HE'S SO CONFUSING!!


Question Posted Friday March 16 2007, 10:13 pm

i honestly dont know what to do anymore. i really like my ex and i know he likes me but every time we talk about it he says he doesnt want a gf right then. we have known each other since kindergarten and are really good friends besides this issue but i think this is ruining our friendship b/c he cant make up his mind. i already confronted him about this too and it doesnt seem to have any effect. should i move on or wait for him?
HELP ME!!!!!!



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xoheretohelpox answered Friday March 16 2007, 10:49 pm:
hmm he is confusing :

well id suggest not moving on quite yet. wait a couple of months and see what happens.

by the end of maybe like 3 months? if he doesnt even flirt with you or if hes still not ready then i guess the best thing to do is to move on.

you cant wait around forever but you should just a little. he might be a little scared or something. so give him just a little time and see what happens.

hope i helped :]
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bittyleigh answered Friday March 16 2007, 10:30 pm:
i don't think you should move on quite yet. This guy obviously means a lot to you. But it almost seems like he knows you will always be there, so he knows he can keep you hanging there as long as he wants. If I were you, I would go flirt around with other guys and let him know that you can move on. Maybe then he'll see that everything can't be on his time. You should have a say in it as well.
good luck!

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orphans answered Friday March 16 2007, 10:26 pm:
heyy

i think you should play it slow. don't get another boyfriend right away. your ex might just be scared and could definitely still like you. just give him some time, like a few months.

if he doesn't do anything durastic (like flirt, ask you out again, etc.) i'd consider moving on, but always keeping a place open for him to come back in incase he does change his mind.

don't make any serious choices yet (like getting another bf, totally ignoring him)

hope i helped :]

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