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kissing
ok my boyfriend brushes his teeth everytime before he sees me, and i know because ill be on the phone with him and i can hear it. but, his breath stinks everytime! its weird it smells like old macaroni and cheese or something l0l. and thats y i dont kiss him a lot. and we fight a lot because i dont and he thinks its because like i dont love him as much. hes very sensitive so it would hurt him a lot if i told him, annd he'd get mad because i didnt tell him sooner, which is my problem with everything. what do i do?? and i dont no y but french kissing just isnt my favorite thing to do and he says he understands that but he'll still get mad because i wont kiss him. sometimes he'll hold my face n try to force me to kiss him. and last weekend i wouldnt kiss him so he pushed my face n my neck cracked like 10 times, but i think most of it was because i was just about to crack it because it needed it. but what can i do about his bad breath? i always have gum because im so paranoid about bad breath and so i give it to him sometimes. but then he'll be like, what are you trying to tell me something? and he'll laugh. helpp
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I don't know how to mention it to him without being hurtful, but I just wanted to tell you that gum does not prevent bad breath and mints do.
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Wow. No matter what is going on, no guy ever has the right to try to force you to kiss him. Never ever. This is a very bad sign. If he's getting angry enough over something as silly as you not kissing him that he's trying to force you to do it and push you away, hard, when you don't, it is going to get much worse for you if you stay with him. Do not stay with him. No matter what. Don't think he will change and most of all don't think that it's your fault. You're not making him the way he is. If you don't wanna kiss him, you don't wanna kiss him and whatever the reason is he needs to accept that. Do not give him another chance because next, you're not gonna want to go somewhere with him and he's going to try dragging you out of your house. Not all that bad right, maybe he was just having a bad day? Wrong. Because then, someday you're not going to want to have sex with him and he's going to rape you. It can and will come to that if you're not careful. Bad breath or no. Now the advice that you're actually asking for. In future relationships, don't be afraid to bring up sensitive topics. Even if your boyfriend reacts badly, complete honesty is always the best way to go about things. Don't be fake for your boyfriends. Show them the real you and your real thoughts right away. If you keep things in and they come out later on in the relationship, a relationship that could have ended in a week and not have caused all that much heartache or lost time might not end for a few years and it'll be much, much worse in the end. You are who you are and he is who he is. He is showing you who he really is. An abuser. Show him who you really are, somebody who's not going to take that. Make sure you tell him his breath is yack too. He does deserve to know. Because of his violent tendencies, don't break up with him when you're alone. Do it in a public place where you know you'll be safe. Don't do it in front of all his friends or anything though of course. You don't wanna be cruel, just safe. I wish you the best of luck and I really, really hope that you end it with him as soon as possible.
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ohhhhh, i KNOW what to do! every day, he should eat 3.5 oz of plain, sugarless yogurt which actually decreases breath odor. neat, huh? maybe you can invite him for lunch and have some yogurt, offer him some yogurt at lunch, etc. hope this helps!!
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Well firstly.
Sometimes with chewing a lot of gum it makes you mouth taste good,so that when his mouth doesn't taste AS good it tastes a lot worse.
(like if you eat something sugary before you drink coffee,the coffee tastes a lot less sweet.)
One thing I do with my boyfriend that really helps is to be chewing a piece of gum while kissing, and slide it into his mouth, but not like pushingly, make it kinda non-chalent.
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Your boyfriend stinks, and I am not just talking about his raunchy cheese breath. He sounds like a total jerk. "...he'll hold my face n try to force me..he pushed my face n my neck cracked." No guy EVER has the right to push or force you in any way to do anything. You need to be in reality here. He is not the sensitive type, he is the insecure bullying creep type. Abuse usually starts small and grows over time. The abusive man claims to be sensitive, but it is the girl that gets hurt. Leave this stinky abusive loser. You deserve a boyfriend that not only is not foul smelling, but more importantly would never do anything to hurt or push or force you. A real man is patient and gentle with the woman he loves, and would never put his hands on any woman in a violent, bullying way...EVER.
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