so tell me, theres this boy in my school, we don't ever talk, but when i see him he just looks at me. like yesterday we were both after school and he walked past me and was looking at me up and down and came really close to me. he's also in my lunch and when he's in the room he looks at me alot, and when i walk past him in this other room he just looks at me again. so what does this mean? i mean like i'm really confused? he doesn't talk to me so idkk.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? helpachick answered Friday March 16 2007, 11:32 am: you'll run into a guy like this from time to time, and weather they want to admit it or not they are scared of girls. haha..who knew we were so intimidating, right?
well the truth is we're not intintionally that way, but almost everybody has been scared to talk to the opposite sex at sometime in their life.
i've had my fair share of guys doing this and i agree its very hard to know just what they are thinking!
what you need to do is just next time you see him, say "hey!, ____name" as you pass him in the halls. or if its the end of the day and your leaving and you see him just say have a good weekend or whatever. once you start doing that maybe he'll realize that he can talk to you and that you wouldn't mind, and you might even have to go in for the next step and make that move too. start talking a little more in more of a conversation. think of clubs or sports that both of you or just him are in, and talk about it. things you know he likes, it'll get him to open up. :)
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chuckweed007 answered Thursday March 15 2007, 8:18 pm: It probably means he's really shy but he probably likes you. If you like him or want to get to know him, go ahead and approach him. Just start some small talk. If he smiles a lot then, that definitely means he likes you. If you dont want to have anything to do with him I would just try to ignore it. Take it from me (a pretty shy guy) it can be tough to approach girls or even know what to do when you make eye contact. I'm pretty sure he's not a stalker or serial killer though, so you're probably good there :) [ chuckweed007's advice column | Ask chuckweed007 A Question ]
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